Hi everyone. I want to understand how to become a more powerful individual. As in being able to stay resilient and grounded in the face of massive social pressure and people undermining you.

Last night I went to a party, walked in with huge grin on my face & massive confidence. Started talking to everyone and having a laugh. A few of my old 'Friends' started to purposefully blow me out and make me lose my confidence. I've noticed a pattern emerge as these same individuals repeat the process. They know what buttons to push - leading to my confident to evaporated for the remainder of the night.

In other words, I am at the bottom of the pecking order (with this OLD social group, and these few individuals). With my newer friends this isn't really an issue.

These people unconsciously find it unacceptable that I behave in a high status manor and do whatever they can to bring me down. Any advice would be appreciated!