I've had my fair share of dealings with bipolar girls, or the cluster personality types and that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid. Met this girl yesterday and it went well.... and then I get this conversation with her tonight. Sorry in advance for the long transcript of my bullshit:
Missed a two calls from her on messenger
Her: Can you call me please
Me: What's up? A bit busy atm
Her: I'm having a bit of a breakdown can you come over please
Me: Where are your friends?
Me: Sorry you're going through a breakdown but you said no emotion, right?
Me: Seriously though, where are your friends?
Her: I'm in my own in the house fuck no emotion I don't know who else to text no one's responding
Me: What's causing the breakdown right now?
Her: Keirons (one of her housemates) been sent to hospital and my uncles died xxx
Me: Okay, why's Keiron been taken to the hospital? And I'm really sorry about your uncle. You'll be alright, just breathe through your nose, hold, and then breathe out your mouth... repeat that shit. You need to try and calm down first of all
Her: Can you come over?
Me: I know you didn't ask for any of this to happen, but I'm kind of on the spot here
Me: Where the fuck are your housemates?
Her: They are out I kinda want you to come over this sucks and I don't know what to do xx
Me: Well, don't hurt yourself. That's number 1
Her: I want to hurt myself
Me: That's not gonna help anything
Me: And i don't wanna feel pressured into coming over. I don't want you to feel like this either obviously
Her: I'm not pressuring you
Her: Xxx
Me: I've only known you 2 days... This is a bit much to deal with atm
Her: ???
Me: Honestly. And i don't mean to come across as a cunt
Her: Congrats your a twat
Me: Oh nice, okay then
Her: Your being mean and I've asked for your help because I'm having a breakdown
Did I handle this poorly? Red flags are suddenly flying everywhere, and I do care about people but I have a fucking life and she's not even a plate. I feel like I'm being cold about it, but I don't want to be roped into someone I don't really know's issues right now. I'm on high alert in case of any emotional blackmail, guilt tripping due to having horrible experiences with it before. What's the best way to handle this? And I apologise again for this post, I just didn't know where else to ask.
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