Cheating on your LTR

infamous3238 · 2018-05-25T14:59:23+00:00

Except for the part about having a kid with an LTR, sounds like you’re doing it right.

We don’t moralize on here, so you should keep doing whatever makes you happy. Just recognize that eventually you’ll get caught, and what impact that will have on your kid, if any.

sinchurch · 2018-05-25T15:08:11+00:00

I don’t really have a stance on cheating. I’m not for LTRs or monogamy. However, having cheating through many of my past relationships, it’s EXHAUSTING and the extra pussy you’re enjoying is at the very least offset by the drama and steps you have to take to get it on the side.

Quality of life is more important to me. I’d leave the LTR for that reason.

JinkiesGangAClue · 2018-05-25T14:57:56+00:00

I think cheating is pussy shit. Nut up, leave and take care of your kid.

mrpthrowa · 2018-05-25T15:47:41+00:00

Cheating is beta. You're doing something you're not owning up to.

When you're found out there is no way to dress it but as a beta sneaking around.

If you want to fuck other women, be upfront. You will need one heck of a frame. And you will need to be very clear to your woman that you won't abdandon her (she still has you), you won't flaunt it (you won't affect her social standing), you will be discreet (don't rub it in her face) and you won't bring her diseases (you won't harm her).

Be prepared to lose her.

fnordsnord · 2018-05-25T16:03:18+00:00

Speaking to strictly practical matters: they always find out. They may not choose to make an issue of it, but sooner or later, they know.

And it can blow up in your face. If you choose to follow this lifestyle, do it with open eyes. Have a plan for how you are going to react and what you will do if you get busted and she freaks out. It can lose you access to your child.

KeffirLime · 2018-05-25T15:25:17+00:00

It's a tough one, you may have a great girl in all aspects, but no man can be expected to poke one vag for the rest of his life. Know the risks but resisting your natural urges will only frustrate you.

MisterRoid · 2018-05-25T15:24:38+00:00

Cheating might even improve your relationship. Be open about it and get a side girl or two for variety. It will keep your girlfriend in line and make her think twice before acting like a bitch.

DandBPrime · 2018-05-25T16:49:25+00:00

Always dread never cheat, just make her feel like you have other options, the moment you cheat you lost your value as a man.

lostbuthopefull · 2018-05-25T15:45:03+00:00

Essentially you're saying, "my wife is shit, I need better women to provide me with what she can't"

Get a divorce bum. Your relationship is dead and you gotta stop cheating on this woman

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-05-25T21:02:49+00:00

So what happened, did she get fat and cranky? At some point you need to consider what it will take for her to be attractive to you again, and barring that, bring up the idea of seeing others

chadjugo · 2018-05-26T11:27:02+00:00

Poly?

MattyAnon · 2018-05-25T17:33:01+00:00

How do i go about this and what is your opinion on cheating?

No moralising from me, so no opinion.

In terms of how to do it: set the frame from the start that you're a busy man. Don't commit, but don't tell her much either. Burner phone is excellent - find a way to use it/answer it evenings and weekends if you can (at least sometimes) to avoid suspicion.

I find women understand that you're not exclusive if you maintain some distance between seeing them.

The basic sketch is that you arrange to meet, meet and fuck, leave WITHOUT SETTING UP A NEW DATE, in fact not even agreeing that there will be one. Leave it a while before setting up the next meeting. This gap... this distance... plus your unavailability and general indifference to the situation will make her away you're not committing to her. She'll be constantly terrified she'll never see you again, and she'll find this addictive. But you have to not give in to her demands, and not get insecure yourself.

Thunderfin · 2018-05-25T22:18:15+00:00

You shouldn't be cheating, ever, if you have a kid. The fact that this is tough reasoning for guys on this thread is scary.

A real alpha, redpill man would never do shit like this.

trpboy123 · 2018-05-25T15:04:25+00:00

Mate, why the fuck did you cheat man? That's wrong. You even have a kid. Cheating is cheap. I think you should stop.

Aralant · 2018-05-25T20:50:50+00:00

Trust me on this. Pussy ain't worth child support.

If you've got an easy source at home tear that up and raise your kid right. Once he's 18 you'll be at your peak smv then go bang some college chicks.

Title	Cheating on your LTR
Author	digbick2222
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Comments	32
Date	May 25, 2018 2:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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