Counting the flags

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2021-01-13T16:19:22+00:00

Counting flags for what, your flag collection?

Are you asking if she would make a good LTR?

The answer is no. The majority of girls in the world won’t make good LTRs. That being said, you need to decide what risk you are willing to take and be ready to walk away when the time comes.

And with that many flags you counted... it would make her at most a FWB to me.

themostgianthorse · 2021-01-13T16:49:25+00:00

I’m just going to point out a few things here-

Point 2 & 3 - never been in a serious LTR in her 30s and drinks “more” than you. We don’t know exactly what “more” is but since you brought it up, it probably has seemed to be excessive to you.

So paint the picture in your head. What do you see? Probably doesn’t look good.

Points 5 & 6 - blatant disrespect. She’s already reliving her prime in her head. The thought that she may have “settled” for you has probably already crossed your mind (and definitely hers). You know it’s hard out there to find something good so you are trying to rationalize this and make some peace with it.

Point 9 - see points 2 & 3. She didn’t make (by your estimation) at least 6 guys wait 4-5 dates so you are at least 7th place of guys that have aroused her. Your ranking is likely much worse.

Point 12 - is she talking about going dancing with you? If not see points 2,3,5,6 & 9.

Point 14 - always up for sex. No surprise here.

Point 15 - seems inexperienced. Interesting! A party girl who drinks a lot that has had several ONS and is always checking out HaWt guys seems inexperienced? Either A. She’s not that in to you or B. She has low self esteem and her sexual escapades have all been for validation.

Point 27 - wasn’t interested in dating for 2 years? You don’t buy this right?

Shake it all up and what do we get!? Drumroll please

......... AN AVERAGE AMERICAN WOMAN.

It’s not all bad and she does have some good qualities that you pointed out but they are nowhere near enough to offset the bad.

Her sexual history is pretty average. What concerns me most for you is that she has had these ONS, made you wait for sex and disrespects you.

I think you know the answer on what to do next.

jjj2576 · 2021-01-13T16:53:54+00:00

You wrote a post for us about this lass’s traits.

Sometimes in life, when you get a question, you just gotta hit at the bell. The hesitation here tells me she isn’t a good LTR for you.

How old are you two? What type of dancing does she do? Club or Social?

Jdamoftruth · 2021-01-13T18:11:15+00:00

As you get older the pool gets narrower

Huh? Date younger women. You can also bang milfs or single moms. My dating options opened exponentially

as you need to get yourself to an almoat god like status if you’re going to find a unicorn in later life.

Quit chasing unicorns and fantasies and join us in reality

RPU_mike · 2021-01-14T01:14:37+00:00

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

Do you guys even read the sidebar anymore?

Digital-Bionics · 2021-01-14T04:05:59+00:00

Did you mean 'calls' out handsome men all the time? And she checks out other guys....that's not likely to change, I went out with a women like that for two years knowing what she was like, and I called her on it just in case she thought I was stupid. It did mean that we couldn't pair bond though, that was part of my personal understanding....we've learnt what we need to from each other and moved on.

Title	Counting the flags
Author	Short_Fly_10
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	January 13, 2021 4:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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