So finding a unicorn is pretty tough. As you get older the pool gets narrower and if you’re wanting to be going hard mode then its even more difficult as you need to get yourself to an almoat god like status if you’re going to find a unicorn in later life.

I wanted to list out my summary of flags and get some of your take on it. Background girl in 30s no kids. Me in 30s too - with kids

  1. More social than me
  2. Drinks more than me
  3. Has had a few ONS and never been in a serious LTR meaning n count * 3 ( said 7 and 2 ons so probably 20+ and 6 ONS at least)
  4. Likes her ‘space’ and to do own thing
  5. Calls our handsome men all the time
  6. Checks out men all the time
  7. Always working on image (pretty standard one here) .. ie teeth whitening, dyes hair, nails painted
  8. Has some gay friends

Now heres some ones i was curious about as to whether they would be under red flags or not

  1. Waits to date 4-5 for sex
  2. Can be very beta provider like - buys me household items and gives me food all the time
  3. Vocal and confident outside
  4. Always says how she can’t wait to go out dancing
  5. Mother is super talkative and father seems passive

Potentially some green flags: 14. Always up for sex 15. Is ok to experiment 16. Is inexperienced in bedroom 17. Good mother/ dad relationship 18. Stable job

Some neutral flags? 19. Home owner 20. Not on her phone when with me 21. Doesnt hide or conceal phone 22. Gives gifts and affection (says what she feels at time) 23. Wants to meet my kids 24. Comes from house of only male siblings 25. Integrates with my family 26. No hobbies 27. Says wasn’t interested in dating for 2 years recently (most prob a lie)