Dad trying to show power

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-07-22T15:53:45+00:00

Who the fuck knows what's actually going on in your fathers life. This is probably not about you, so just let it pass and worry about you. It's all back to you.

Your dad could be dealing with a challenge you know nothing about.

php_developr · 2019-07-22T16:01:49+00:00

Dog pissing on the floor isn't cool. Hitting the dog isn't cool either.

Similar mixed picture with your interaction with Dad.

I think you should just move out. I had a similar issue with my dad and don't regret having less savings because of it.

CainPrice · 2019-07-22T15:56:27+00:00

You live under your dad's roof. If he's feeding you, giving you shelter, paying for your clothes, and buying the dog food, it's his dog, not yours. It's also his floor the dog pissed on, not yours.

Until you're standing on your own two feet and aren't dependent on your dad, you don't have the right to tell him shit.

If you have enough income to pay your own rent, buy your own food, feed your own dog, and clean your own floor when your dog pisses on it, why haven't you moved out long ago? If you're leeching off of your dad just to save money, you've got no right to bitch about your dad. You're using him. He ought to be bitching about you. And he is, when your dog pisses on his floor.

Poptart318 · 2019-07-22T20:43:59+00:00

You piss on the floor while having eye contact with your dad, show dominance

Whisper · 2019-07-22T23:28:59+00:00

Are you nuts?

If you are living under his roof, on his dime, what the fuck do you expect?

And of course he's angry that your mutt pissed on his floor. Animals that live in human society need to abide by human rules, like "other people's houses are not your fucking toilet".

Train your damn dog, and stop biting the hand that feeds you. If you don't like that, get a job, move out, pay your own rent.

RoccoPinkman · 2019-07-22T17:15:09+00:00

Move out then. Why are you even asking

SmamelessMe · 2019-07-22T18:46:29+00:00

In no way am I apologizing for animal abuse, but as long as he's paying your way, he makes the rules. You may not like it. You may want to complain about it. But that's about everything you can do about it. Suck it up, or GTFO. Try to take the dog with you, if you can.

Terdmuffin · 2019-07-22T20:38:55+00:00

He told me to shut up and that he is the boss and can do whatever he wants while I live under his roof.

And he's right. If you don't like it move out.

Eminencemiddle · 2019-07-22T23:16:57+00:00

If you don't move, at least keep the fucking dog out of your dad's house.

Then, move.

jamesbond8181 · 2019-07-23T00:48:30+00:00

Fuck I’m late to the thread what he say

X--Man · 2019-07-22T15:54:42+00:00

I would hit your dog and cuss if it pissed on my floor also.

He is 100% correct. Its his house and if dog piss on the floor makes him mad then he has every right to get mad.

Train your dog better.

If you dont like it, get the fuck out!

Velebit · 2019-07-22T18:32:58+00:00

Remain calm and dismantle him. Don't try to yell at him, don't try to show bravado. Be nontreathening and shame him for his attitudes and lack of self control.

DON'T LET HIM shut you up. Continue talking over him. Don't let him put his hands on weaker ones. If he physically assaults you GOOD. Sue that cunt. But he won't you will have and intense stand off and he will leave. Don't break eye contact in those situations. Don't let him approach you from side. Face him always and make your readiness known.

Why just leave like a defeated loser when you can stand up to him and then leave. You plan on leaving anyway, it's just a matter of time. This way you increase your own pride and confidence and stand up for what is right.

Make sure you download an app that records audio and film whenever he is abusive. This is 2019 which means people live until 80 on average. By the time it is 2050 people will live on average to 85... you realize by the time you inherit anything you will be around 57 to 65 and whatever difference that inheritance could have made is long gone. Make sure you get whatever you can from him before you move out including AMOGing him by your stoic and unflinching demeanor.

Don't let that old shit kick you around.

Title	Dad trying to show power
Author	mickJagermeisterr
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	July 22, 2019 3:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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