Do you ever discuss your hate for 3rd wave feminism among your peers?

GayLubeOil · 2018-06-20T20:18:46+00:00

Don't have friends who support feminism. Surround yourself with winners.

Borsao66 · 2018-06-20T15:46:52+00:00

Verbal judo.

Always redirect. "You know with whatever I don't keep up with some of the bigger points. Tell me what you think.".

Then throw in some yeahs and uh huhs and good points to mirror their point of view.

Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect

The mirror reflects reality, but it is also the perfect tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy. The Mirror Effect mocks and humiliates them, making them overreact. By holding up a mirror to their psyches, you seduce them with the illusion that you share their values; by holding up a mirror to their actions, you teach them a lesson. Few can resist the power of the Mirror Effect.

Tungstate · 2018-06-20T18:07:43+00:00

Your results may vary, but I have on occasion. Not necessarily from a hateful standpoint, and never referencing TRP, but more of how it affects men and women today. It really depends on your audience. I think more people are aware of the harm third wave feminism is doing to society than most would think.

Pulled an HB6-7 indirectly this way once, so it’s not a totally taboo subject.

HardPiano · 2018-06-20T15:17:03+00:00

No. I have better things to do than talk like a woman at the hairdressers.

le_king_falcon · 2018-06-20T19:34:27+00:00

With one or two true bro's who I'd literally trust my life with, yes.

Anyone else, hell no. I work for a major corporation that has a major hard on for feminist shit so I'd actually risk blowback at work and risk my future within the company and industry. Outside of the risks to my career I'd rather not risk the potential social alienation and bullshittery attached to being a dirty mysogynist.

ncstaterepted · 2018-06-21T17:05:10+00:00

I work in a HAZMAT zone, the coastal Ivy League. I'm one of few men in my office, the only male in a similar position university-wide. I work among a cesspool of citationless research which feeds the larger global narrative (think rape culture statistical gymnastics).

I can let my opinions fly but always with plausible deniability and empathy.

For example, as women complain about the heat, I'll gripe about wishing dress code allowed for men to wear shorts and open-toed shoes. Then maybe I'll ask them, "Why can't I wear a dress too?" No normal person is going to fold their arms and say "Yeah well that's how it should be!". An insane feminist may, but why would you want to talk with an insane feminist anyway?

The plausible deniability is there... I was just griping with my colleagues about the weather, wishing I could wear some shorts. But, on the low-key, I've introduced somebody to an unfair bias which they can directly relate to, but it isn't on their mind normally. Who doesn't hate showing up at work sweaty? I had a girl message me last night, "After our conversation yesterday, it's really not fair! You should just show up wearing shorts!"

Of course I wouldn't, and she is DTF, but that's not the point.

Another example is recently with this child cage business. My whole office went protesting, and of course questioned my lack of participation. Showing interest, I looked at pictures of their signs and heard their tales, clicked my tongue at the thought of kids in cages, and expressed "How horrible it is that children be locked up for crimes their parents committed". In a way, I am reminding everybody that the illegal alien parents are to blame. But that redpill is wrapped in empathy for their point of view. I had a laundry list of facts to hand out, fake CNN photos, media hype, Obama and Hillary did it too, most of the "parents" are coyote traffickers, the child with down syndrome was being trafficked by a coyote and not his parents, where is your outrage when inner city black mothers are separated from their children for committing crimes, etc. None of that was necessary, and I brought the conversation back into the middle. Some of the lefties even started debating among themselves after my comment.

Borsao66 · 2018-06-20T15:20:27+00:00

Good God no.

Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others

If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.

Ninokun · 2018-06-20T18:56:53+00:00

Only with friends that do have a Redpill ideology. first rule of fightclub and so on

LateralThinker13 · 2018-06-20T21:46:25+00:00

Is this still the the consensus in trp?

IF you are looking for an LTR, not just plates, and IF you are filtering for sane (i.e. non-feminist, or perhaps even RP women) then yeah, you can bring up feminism (not your hate for it) JUST LONG ENOUGH to see where they stand on it.

If they hate it from the moment you mention it, it might be safe to discuss it. If they are indifferent or pro-feminism, STFU and change subject/bail.

Whisper · 2018-06-20T21:50:36+00:00

"Consensus" doesn't mean shit on TRP. TRP is 95% novices and 5% experienced.

Talk to the experienced guys, and you'll find that the answer is the same for this as for most other things.

"Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't."

ValorElite · 2018-06-21T00:43:30+00:00

I used to, but it truly is meaningless. It feels good to bullshit and talk about it with others, but it does not benefit anyone.

Learn the truth and keep it to yourself.

Viking_RnP · 2018-06-20T23:36:35+00:00

I find it best not to discuss hate at all.

Avertus · 2018-06-21T08:41:29+00:00

women are becoming more masculine while men are being encouraged to adopt more beta traits

I literally saw a CNN or BBC article (don't care anymore which is which) about a trans-man who got pregnant and gave birth and then called a "proud father" or something like that. And then of course there's the soy boy and incel phenomenon.

the general consensus was to never talk about your opinions on feminism and act like you don't hold much an opinion when asked by your peers.

I never discussed TRP concepts per se with my friends, but we do talk about SJWs and political issues in general, since my peer circle is mostly conservative or libertarian, which means my buddies are fine talking and joking about politically incorrect stuff.

civilizedfrog · 2018-06-21T10:00:22+00:00

If the question of feminism ever pops up, I always say that I love feminism. Then say that earlier it was just men doing all work, now society expects them to do work. Then I add that in prehistoric days men we're supposed to marry to have sex with one. Now I have crazy sex with a variety of women and I don't need to marry. Then thank feminists for the hard work they did.

2comment · 2018-06-20T15:48:10+00:00

Yeah, I make offhand comments but not anything that direct. Depending on the reaction, I might go a little more into it while keeping it generic.

There's a lot of backbiters and white-knights out and about ready to use your words against you, so you have to discuss rp truths in a non-rp way. I have to do this a lot with my nephews because they're momma's boys where the dad is divorced and in that age where it becomes relevant.

Shooting the messenger is common throughout history.

resnine · 2018-06-20T16:15:30+00:00

Wait, isn't one of the rules here NOT to discuss trp to others? and let them find it on their own?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-06-21T02:20:58+00:00

Arguing abt political shit is a waste of time. Third wave feminism is a trade union for fuglies and fatties and they all pretty much know it. The only time I argue abt feminism with women is if there’s a hot chick I want to bang who is all ”Yay! Feminism!” and I want to give her tingles by crushing her silly arguments with my masculine brain, until her pussy goes ”SPLOOSH!” in her panties and she starts demanding that I fill her with my seed....

FeralRed · 2018-06-20T15:09:30+00:00

STfU.

Why would you think anything coming out of your mourth will change the tide?

Painting a target on your back is all you're doing.

Plus, any real advice? Or are you just bitching like a woman about how the world is going to shit?

So shut up, and live your own life.

Raging against the machine gets you nowhere.

eccentricrealist · 2018-06-20T15:01:28+00:00

I like to talk about fun stuff

wkndatbernardus · 2018-06-20T17:41:40+00:00

There's this complete gaylord in my office and he's always talking trash about Trump. I just use the Chris Rock script on him similar to the one I use when women spew emotional puke: "Is that right? You don't say? Go on! Get outta here!" Just keep repeating until they shut their pie holes.

MattyAnon · 2018-06-20T18:43:31+00:00

Do you ever discuss your hate for 3rd wave feminism among your peers?

I try, but most are generally supportive of "progress" and "redressing rights to the poor wimminz" and "pay equality" and "better options for wimminz".

Then they get bent over a barrel and royally fucked in the ass by divorce courts. But they still aren't comfortable criticising anything associated with the feminine.

I try..... I comment on things.... if they start to get all blue pill (usually happens), I change the subject. Most can't/won't face reality.

don't share / Is this still the the consensus in trp?

Yes!

Title	Do you ever discuss your hate for 3rd wave feminism among your peers?
Author	hrm0894
Upvotes	29
Comments	44
Date	June 20, 2018 2:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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