Do you have a girlfriend?

Random_throwaway_000 · 2018-10-07T21:23:07+00:00

Why you ask? You want the job?

menial_optimist · 2018-10-07T20:52:15+00:00

How about not answering it directly, such as pressure flipping or other means, to add mystery. In my opinion if she's already asking if you have a girlfriend it means she's interested? This way you don't have to lie, and you can be playful with it?

bondbandito · 2018-10-08T02:20:18+00:00

No, jesus christ. Avoid women who poach like the plague.

You don't have to say "Yes", you don't have to say "No". Leave it open ended, and make it a competition she feels she needs to work for in order to earn the "yes" <-- "There's a couple people I'm seeing"

Poaching women are the types that seek validation through sex. These are the false accusers, and the oopsers. It should be your biggest red flag.

_the_shape_ · 2018-10-08T02:58:22+00:00

"I don't call her that, but there's someone.."

Basically suggests that you're fucking someone (pre-selection), but nothing 'official'. If pushed to tell more, draw the line there and assertively state that you'd rather not discuss your private life any further.

guymeatdrapes00 · 2018-10-08T02:32:26+00:00

Say “No but I know a girl that would be really mad if she heard me say that.”

ba77ab · 2018-10-07T22:52:17+00:00

Pretty fucking lame here if you lie and also it's easily found out. Say "no but would you like to apply?"

QawL · 2018-10-07T21:48:56+00:00

I happened to find out "I recently broke up" is the best answer. It was true at that moment but 2 girls that I randomly talked about breaking up recently worked out pretty solid.

latinasonly · 2018-10-08T04:05:40+00:00

I actually answer these questions honestly. I am so self-confident and at ease with myself that I see no reason to lie. Ultimately, the strongest frame is the truth. (however you get to describe, to frame the truth as you see fit ;) ) I so solidly have the subconscious attraction down, I don't need the kicker points from pres-election, DHV (those who are high value don't need to show it ;) ), etc. Do you think James Bond goes out of his way to tell DHV stories and prove other women want him. NO. It just happens naturally.

Sometimes, the answer is no, I don't have girlfriend. I'm working on it ;)

Other times the answer is no, but I am talking to other girls.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-10-08T07:45:26+00:00

I don't lie. I may avoid questions etc. but I won't lie. Besides - next thing they wanna see pictures and shit. I don't wanna spin a whole story and have to remember all the details. I got better things to do.

AdmiralFiz · 2018-10-08T14:11:46+00:00

"Yea they're around here somewhere"

[deleted] · 2018-10-08T14:14:12+00:00

just because when you're in a relationship some bitch wants to take you from that bitch feels good, doesn't mean you should.

i've learned from that, poaching can really fuck with the guy, bitches on the otherhand recover like wild fire

Lostitink · 2018-10-08T07:02:02+00:00

I generally say "No, what's your number". I think that the "No, but I'm taking applications" line is much better though will use hence forth.

Caspero444 · 2018-10-08T01:59:20+00:00

This is like one of the all-time top questions along with "what are you looking" for and yeah I think a lot of people try to be too logical and answer it from the male pov.

Title	Do you have a girlfriend?
Author	bondbandito
Upvotes	13
Comments	29
Date	October 7, 2018 8:40 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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