Does ignoring women work?

Filmguy000 · 2020-05-04T12:31:43+00:00

Ignoring women is kind of a mixed bag. It really depends on many factors such as how far you have gotten with her, your SMV, etc.

Pleasenodrugs · 2020-05-04T12:42:23+00:00

What are you trying to achieve? I remember I used to ignore girls and all I would achieve was a bunch of fan girls that thought I was some mysterious dude. Now i actually fuck them

Whitefarmer · 2020-05-04T13:30:54+00:00

Works great if you actually have something better to do and she feels like she has to earn your attention. Even if you love her and all that shit she is happy to earn your attention for life if your good at it

Don’t ignore her and beat off to porn in the basement

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-04T14:15:50+00:00

Side-bar.

This is called "soft-nexting", and is very, very well documented.

TRP_Scepter · 2020-05-04T15:27:56+00:00

It works if you've already built up a certain level of attraction to the woman. If you're some beta bitch to her she's not gonna give a fuck. I once had a girl whose texts I ignored for texts weeks on end and every week or so if we cross paths she'd say something along the lines of;

"Well you keep ignoring my texts, so..." "If you responded to my text..." "I texted you but clearly you didn't get it..."

She was probably surprised I wasn't beta boy billy showering her ass with attention. Ignoring is a good way to say "earn my attention."

le_wolfe · 2020-05-04T18:24:36+00:00

Does ignoring women work?

In a context, yes. If you can calibrate, attention is one of the most important tools in your arsenal.

Attention is to women what sex is to men.

hoopingblob · 2020-05-04T12:32:03+00:00

I don't do it on purpose but I do miss hints of attraction 60% of the time or choose to ignore it.

Imo if you are attracted to someone you approach them directly and ask them out. It's really that simple.

Cerohero · 2020-05-04T13:59:17+00:00

Well the truth is they fucking love it when they are challenged. You not in her control makes her brain or hamster run faster thinking why can't I have this guy?

phisch13 · 2020-05-04T14:02:48+00:00

Personal experience: depends on how attractive you are.

You can get away with a lot more based on how high your smv is. If I tried the shit I do now back when I was fat, it wouldn’t do anything. It works exceptionally well if a girl is attracted to you though. They crave your attention.

Grass is always greener, people want what they can’t have. Dangle the carrot and give them just enough attention to leave them wanting more. Has worked really well for me. Depending on their status in my life, I will reply to them somewhere between a day and a week.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-05-04T15:11:14+00:00

if you are high SMV, its like catnip.

non-ironically: 'ignoring' is the easy part once you've paid your dues to become higher SMV. it's not hard at all when you can say: "this bitch ain't nothin" regardless of how hawt she is as you know some guy, somewhere, is sick of her shit, and you would be too. AWALT.

it's the needy/thirsty guy who knows deep down he's got zero-shit together who also will naturally choose to orbit and self deprecate.... think about it: why should he escalate and polarize? "rejection is worse than regret" makes sense to an assertive, confident, higher SMV RP guy with abundance mindset, yet it's heresey to a needy loser who rarely talks to a women who isn't a cave troll. he would rather prolong the "ask", defer the rejection for fear of "judgement" by his object of interest.

also, when you are engaged with others in action/convo/interest - what appears to a target as ignoring, is just her not registering with you, authentically. so when you ignore as part of Game, it looks the same to her.

abortion6969 · 2020-05-04T17:23:56+00:00

She must not catch on the fact that you are intentionally ignoring her, even if you do have something better to do.

comcain · 2020-05-04T23:44:23+00:00

Yes.

TheChinkLord · 2020-05-06T10:27:22+00:00

It would not be possible to know exactly what is going on in their minds. I’ve found it to work sometimes, and sometimes not. If you don’t feel like talking to them, then don’t. It’s better to present the best version of yourself to everyone than to force something you don’t feel like doing.

Title	Does ignoring women work?
Author	holy_shroom
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Date	May 4, 2020 12:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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