Okay keep in mind I'm 16 and so is she. I can pick up girls pretty well. My flaw is that I'm very inexperienced in handling relationships that go past that pick up. And that's my vulnerability I need to fix to better myself and its what landed me in failing in a majority of what I did in this one. I want to stop that from now on and its why I'm asking for advice
So I posted here before, I was in a bad state of mine and handled a situation awfully and did everything wrong.
http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2m7av1/girlfriend_and_i_agreed_to_a_break_i_regretted_it/
That's the thread, feel free to cringe and criticize as you read it.
2 weeks ago we stopped talking, I was done with her shit, she was treating me like shit and I was getting over it. She called me a couple of times to "give me closure". I ignored a majority of the time, finally answered the phone and she asked if I had anything to say. I promptly told her how little I respect her as a person.
But then I crossed the line. She released new information to me about her ex boyfriend that cheated on her, I said I was glad that happened. Then hung up on her. A week passes, and I was getting past my one-itis but I felt guilty for saying that to her.
I called her to let her know that I did something wrong. But then I quickly told her I was going to go. This phone call was for myself, it was NOT for me wanting to be with her, but simply because I felt that its just simply not me to say something like that.
Let me tell you I KNOW you disagree with this. Don't say I'm sorry ect. That doesn't matter anymore
Because this phone call was this past Sunday, and as I was gonna hang up she wanted to ask how I was doing. I believe she started realizing that I was moving on. She tried to shit test me with jealousy games, like mentioning how her and her best friend Anthony hooked up. I did what I learned from the TRP and lauged and amplified. I told her "Wow really? Amazing! Good for you two guys. Man you guys can have nicknames and everything!" She also mentioned a guy name Andrew. I played this well also "Man fuck andrew he's getting in the way of Anthony man. Anthony is perfect for you! Watch you'll find andrew too clingy I know you"
She was taken back by this. She expected my normal jealousy and I didn't give that to her.
During this long random conversation she said two things that caught my attentioned. She said ",You do this to me a lot, you know? I was mad at you and all of a sudden I'm not nearly as mad at you" and I responded "I guess".
Also after I passed all the shit tests she said " you know I can tell you're really over me, like if I were to text you asking to hangout you would probably just not feel the same right?"
Boom another shit test, I felt like I was getting better at this.
I simply said "really? Is that question necessary?"
I realized that we were on the phone for 5 damn hours. And that's too long, considering the very purpose of this phone call was purely for myself and not to have a conversation.
I joked that I forgot what she looks like and called it a night.
Bam 20 minutes later at 4 in the morning I get pictures of her Xmas trees that she was gonna send me, and a picture of her ass and what she looked like and she said "aren't my trees beautiuf? Also sending you a pic of my booty and what I looked like because you " forgot" (laughing emoji " "
Boy was I happy. I didn't respond tho. I texted her later that day because we had issues with a mutual friend, then I ignored her all day. She hung out with andrew that day and texted me 8 hours after I ignored saying "I hope you just enjoy this because this is the only time I will say u were right, I do find andrew too clingy now (laughing emoji) "
I was happy lmao but I waited till morning to respond . I joked being cocky that I was right and then she said "idk" and I said "what?" and she never responded. Its been 2 days and no response. Pretty sure she's playing games now.
My issue is that I still have feelings for this girl, but I realize a relationship with her is toxic. However I'm interested enough that I wanna fuck her I guess. You guys call this making her a plate?
I don't exactly know what to do however. Before I was throwing myself at her pathetically, she wanted nothing to do with me. Now she's convinced I'm over her and she seems to be giving signals that she is interested again. Like how everyone told me would happen in my thread I posted here before, I should have listened.
So what do I do? I still flaw in the fact that I have feelings for this girl that is obviously manipulative as fuck, but at least I'm thinking rationally now and not giving into it. And as a result she's coming back. I wanna know the best way to play this.
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