"Fake it until you make it". Does it work?

Archwinger · 2015-10-07T14:25:21+00:00

"Fake it until you make it". Does it work?

Yes.

Is it possible/effective to lie to myself about my own value?

Why would you want to?

Can I boost my confidence without consistent positive results?

Yes.

Phyzis · 2015-10-07T14:22:00+00:00

Read Whisper's recent submission on trp. Changing your actions will inevitably change your behavior.

fourbet · 2015-10-07T14:25:26+00:00

The whole idea around "fake it until you make it" is that by adopting a goal-based attitude centered on progress you will naturally end up achieving more goals.

It's not about saying you're a CEO of a fortune 500 company when it's an outright lie. It's about telling yourself you're a capable person with a finance degree who's moving up the ladder quickly. When you project the goal-oriented winner mentality people begin to treat you like that type of person.

FrameWalker · 2015-10-07T15:14:21+00:00

To extend the sexual marketplace analogy, your sexual value is subjective. If you're regularly getting a good deal (AF) you won't settle for a bad one (friendzone).

If you act like you're worth a million Fucks a few girls are gonna buy into it and guess what you're now valued at a million Fucks. If you talk yourself down and don't believe in your own fuckability index good luck getting past a handy.

So know your product and be realistic to yourself about it. Know your bottom line to break even. Know the value of your own time. Talk to the folks at R and D about the next software patch. Get real.

And when you go to town and you're selling remember to Bluff and negotiate. Keep information to yourself. Guard the blueprints. Don't be too rigid, you still gotta close.

If you've gotta really hot product, less is more. Undersell a bit, but keep the price high and very casually walk quickly. Your opportunity cost is high.

JohnWeek · 2015-10-07T14:20:27+00:00

I would love some input from

/u/Archwinger

/u/Whisper

/u/abdada

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-10-07T14:25:14+00:00

Anything can work, as long as you don't fuck it up.

Johnny10toes · 2015-10-07T22:10:39+00:00

To a certain point. For instance don't act tough, be tough. Don't act strong, be strong. See the difference?

Jax-T · 2015-10-07T17:22:06+00:00

If you need a quick T boost, then yes power pose may give you that but why faking it when you actually improve yourself in the long term and become really self-confident.

Title	"Fake it until you make it". Does it work?
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Date	October 7, 2015 2:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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