Feminine Traits

spider_1337 · 2019-06-04T16:02:06+00:00

I think modern society encourages feminine traits so much in men to where men just straight up act like women since typically male traits are supressed due to being "toxic". Honestly if you just get your test flowing by lifting and eating healthy then you probably dont have to worry so much about displaying feminine traits

campa56la · 2019-06-04T16:16:21+00:00

One feminine trait would be gossiping.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-06-04T19:47:39+00:00

-Passive aggressive behavior: there is an occasional time and place where this may be a good course of action but its better to be direct.

-Neediness. A strong man does not NEED a woman. He WANTS a woman. Huge difference.

-Jealousy: shows insecurity and shows you don't recognize your value or that you actually aren't that high value.

-Insecurity: lack of confidence. This is self explanatory.

-Submissiveness: women are innately submissive and men are innately dominant. You will not always be the dominant one in every situation in your life and that is fine. But do not get into a habit of submitting to people when you are right.

-Lack of emotional/self control: This one is possibly arguable but allowing other people to move you off your center shows they can control you. In some situations it may be warranted to get angry but generally the most emotional party always loses.

We live in an androgynous society in the west. Men are encouraged to become more feminine and women more masculine. It's sick to be quite frank and shows a broken society when their are no roles and nobody knows their place. That is when society is not cohesive and when society runs amok which it is now. Look at TV commercials for a look into subliminal messaging of men in the feminine, submissive position and the woman (often shown as a wife or gf) in the powerful, strong position.

We must choose to ignore this and live our lives to the fullest, while cultivating our masculinity and not letting it be define by modern society or feministic bullshit.

littlesaigon22 · 2019-06-04T16:36:48+00:00

Here's my top 10 girly shit I see today's men do:

Saying "like" all the time.
"Needing" things (like coffee or food. It's ok to simply want them).
Taking things personally/ getting offended over dumb shit.
Being an SJW/feminist in any way (old school feminism like birth control/suffragism is fine).
Wearing "comfy" clothes (sweats, flip flops)
Talking excessively about yourself (especially complaining).
Crying. Never ever cry to a girl.
Panicking. If you have anxiety keep that shit to yourself.
Whining. If you aren't getting your way, get over it or make your way happen.
Being solipsistic. You should be aware of your surroundings, other people around you, and especially your girl. Don't tend to her every need, but know what they are.

Yashugan00 · 2019-06-04T17:09:54+00:00

For example: a guy in my group whines and complains until he gets his way. it's extremely off putting. you can just see his girlfriend cringe from his behaviour. I predict they break up within a month

MostafaKhat · 2019-06-04T18:49:12+00:00

Basically avoiding things associated with being gay.

inittowinit777 · 2019-06-04T21:32:36+00:00

To add on to OP’s question, I had one of my own along similar lines: I’ve realized/observed about myself for a while now that I like testing the boundaries with what I can get away with in terms of making “twinky” (for lack of a better term) fashion choices at times. This might be something like wearing a wig at a party for shits and giggles, or, especially at music festivals, just going all out with only short shorts on and risking looking like a gay fag lol (especially since I’m a slightly buffer version of a skinny fuckboi with abs rn, probably wouldn’t risk looking gay at all if I was bigger).

This is something about me that I should try to change/actively avoid, right? I’ve always been a little flamboyant tbh, but of course I don’t want that to be perceived as “gayness” and potentially lose out on girls because they automatically labeled me a flamer in their minds.

I also wear earrings (which I’m fine with personally), get my eyebrows groomed (also not gonna stop doing this, it enhances my facial aesthetics tremendously), and was considering getting a nose piercing (but probably won’t tbh cause I don’t wanna risk giving off any more feminine/gay vibes than I already might).

I guess at the end of the day it’s my decision to make, and I’ve definitely seen guys similar to me being successful with women. Still interested in hearing askTRP’s thoughts and opinions on the matter though.

Lambdal7 · 2019-06-04T19:52:15+00:00

This is textbook autistic trp.

They try to portray hypermasculinity like Trump, where everybody with half a brain sees instantly that you’re an idiot.

I pull most girls with being girly and a bit flamboyant. Girls drop their guard and tell you everything about their life. Then, just escalat and close the deal.

You need to be able to be also be masculine, if you’re just feminine, there’s not attraction.

Femininity is for opening up, while masculinity is for creating tension and closing.

Title	Feminine Traits
Author	sanbessa95
Upvotes	25
Comments	73
Date	June 4, 2019 3:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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