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[–]JvSOUL7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is 100% true. It's a miracle your on a date Bro, tinder and other sites are a wasteland lol. WAY better to just approach, be social.
[–]youdontevenknow84 17 points18 points19 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck dude, my heart just grew 3x bigger.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
lol right? so many men cannot pull that off, so to me, it means his aesthetic must be pretty damn good. I suppose it could be luck, but i dunno
[–]aurelius_shrugs 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am definitely not top 20%. I pull dates from bumble quite a bit. Post wall ladies though.
[–]youdontevenknow84 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably luck. Haven't been in the Tinder game a while and I don't get many 8's.
I literally sent her two messages before telling her where to meet me and she agreed. It was the least initial investment I've ever made.
[–]Ganaria_Gente1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
mind if i ask what the contents of your text convo was ?
and i agree with teh other guy: you must look amazing for her to meet up. id be interested in seeing what your body build looks like
[–]youdontevenknow84 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It was a casual greeting, then she told me she just finished working out, so I told her she'd have to show me her guns sometime.
Then it was straight to "sure just tell me where and when", so I said "tomorrow somewhere between us".
I don't look amazing, though. Average build. 6'2" 190 lbs. deadlift 250, sq 195, bench 175, can only bust out ~10 pull-ups per set. Light cardio.
Honestly I expected a flake, but she sent a confirmation text a few hours prior.
[–]seeing-red-6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can't win em all bro. Keep at it.
[–]bestCallEver2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This. That's all. Not every girl is going to be attracted and receptive, move on.
[–]youdontevenknow84 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, just sucks. I would've gladly given her a ride for a few hours.
It's a weird feeling sometimes but putting myself out there any more than I did would've just been "dancing monkey" level type shit.
[–]CuntyMcFagNuts694 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Desire can't be negotiated. Red Pill doesn't guarantee every woman will like you, just increases your odds by understanding their nature.
[–]Wavyes 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her loss, you seem chill af.
[–]empatheticapathetic2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always be a happy dude. If the date is shit, don't let it show that it's getting to you. Just enjoy every moment and amuse yourself.
It just sounds like a shit date, it doesn't define you. We all feel like this after a shitty experience, it's how we use it to improve. Assuming you've had good dates and experiences before, this was just a shittty one.
[–]bboiabb 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
4billion women minus 1. I know i'm oversimplifying it, but at the end of the day it's a numbers game… Just remember that.
[–]fvrthebrave3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Tinder is hard man. I've been on both ends. It's really no big deal, you can't always win. The other night I was literally in a girls bed watching a movie. I didn't want to fuck her so I didnt... imagine how that shit must have made her feel.
You got a good looking girl to go out with you on a Friday... good work.
[–]machimus1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You did fine, sometimes dates just suck. Laugh it off, you're laughing with all guys who date. And you learned a lesson. Next time a girl says she has to be up early, ask her right away if you should drop her off. After all, why party if you care about being tired in the morning?
That's a good point. I had just ordered another beer when she said that, and I was taken back. Seemed like a huge cop out. Who goes on late night dates when they planned to go hiking at 6:30?
Probably would've been the same outcome except my pride would be a little better off if I called her on the hiking comment when she said it.
[–]lanky321 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look its just one woman. One woman is not interested in you. Doesn't mean others will not be.
Happens with everyone, even with the alphas.
No big deal man. Go out on date with other women.
[–]huge_gap1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't worry about it and KEEP trying. Some girls will not be into you. It's happened to me and happened to others, and it won't stop you from scoring hard with even hotter chicks later. Whenever they seem disinterested and make an excuse about work tomorrow or they need to go home for some reason end it there. Don't be a dick, just act like it's fine and you don't give a shit while still being warm and funny. Who knows she may hit you up later if you handle yourself confidently.
[–]youdontevenknow84 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I deleted her after the goodbye hug in the middle of the bar. I didn't want to hang out in her Tinder list of backup plans.
Btw I just want to point out how funny my Post Reply list is. Since they're all the same topic title, all I see is:
Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck
[–]sadshark-2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I got fed up after another hour of shit convo,
WTF are you doing spending so much time with a girl that's not attracted to you?
[–]youdontevenknow84 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just an hour
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