FWB dances with friend while drunk and almost makes out with him

Hard-Truth7 · 2021-03-29T05:23:19+00:00

She’s your fwb right, not your gf. If you were talking to her and giving her a lot of attention, stop it. Pull back and demote her to a plate.

lietruth · 2021-03-29T06:32:23+00:00

FWB: not exclusive.

If it bothers you, you’re too attached. Be grateful you saw this red flag.

Kind_Bowler3632 · 2021-03-29T07:05:01+00:00

I think the naturally red pill men of the past instinctively knew the difference between women who were fun to be around sluts and girlfriend material therefore didn't get moody when slut got off with other guy.

It's not your fault: you sound young and talk here of 'promoting' fwb to girlfriend does nobody any favours.

Why? 1, Being red pill does not mean being out of touch with feelings. It means that you've the self-knowledge to know when a girl is just a bit of fun to you or someone you're into.

2, Women aren't stupid: they know when you're into them or not therefore IF they agree to sleep with you knowing you're really not into them they are by definition sluts.

Get to know yourself better, don't tie yourself to one woman and for goodness sake use contraception.

Getting a girlfriend pregnant has a slight chance ( albeit slim) chance of working out, an FWB has none! She'll never ever forgive you for using her as a c**dumpster for a while because, let's face it, that's what a 'FWB' is.

Liberal_On_Guns · 2021-03-29T09:10:49+00:00

Eh. Sure you aren't exclusive, but I still lean towards cutting her out. If we're FWB, I'm not going to a party with you to flirt and dance on other guys. We aren't in a relationship, but you're my date to the party. Reconsider the "friend" as well. What kind of friend makes moves on your date without your permission?

Another user said to consider demoting her to a plate. You can consider that move if you draw a hard line between FWB and plate. I personally don't, so I would just be done.

Subutai_Baghatur · 2021-03-29T08:15:02+00:00

I find out she danced closely with one of the friends there and almost made out with him. She was extremely drunk and didn't know what she was doing, according to her of course.

So what do I do now? Cut her out of my life or try to fix things?

She has lost the ability to be promoted to LTR at any point and now you need to either demote her to plate or cut her off completely. This cannot be “fixed”.

How far you go is a decision that you need to make based solely on your personal morals: nothing to do with her...how cool of a girl she is, how much she apologized, how much value gives you etc...just you and what you feel is acceptable to you.

If you are you unsure then I recommend reading as much material here as you can to get to that decision for yourself.

kclanton80 · 2021-03-29T15:49:48+00:00

Let this be a lesson to you that men and women are not friends.

Hubertos94 · 2021-03-29T08:50:08+00:00

I would drop her, she is a mess.

Azshira · 2021-03-29T19:13:20+00:00

What’s with all these weird assessments of FWB status. She tried to make out with your friend while you were asleep, respect yourself and drop her.

Title	FWB dances with friend while drunk and almost makes out with him
Author	pizz4b0i
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	March 29, 2021 5:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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