Created an alt-account as suggested by you guys, but I've been lurking and reading our material for the better part of a year.

"You don't shit where you eat" is a phrase that gets tossed around frequently, and is excellent advice for all of us. Something I've found since my RP journey is the more you change your life for the better, the more others will notice. Specifically, the people you work with, more specifically the women you work with. I've started eating better and lifting and started a little real estate business on the side and sure enough, I've caught the attention of a young intern at my office.

She's 20, beautiful and educated. She's weasled her way into my life and we have good chemistry. I've probably payed her too much attention and now I'm starting to catch the oneitis. Mistakes have been made. We attended the company christmas party together (a formal setting) she's been over to my place on a couple of occasions to "watch Netflix" but I never escalated. I'm terrified of this girl because we work together and I think my mind put up some LMR. If that makes sense.

I know she has other men (orbiters) in her life, she's in a sorority, she identifies as a feminist, she has daddy issues, she smokes, we work together.

My mind understands why I should keep my distance from this woman. I have other women in my life, though I haven't slept with them yet. I'm just fighting it pretty hard.

Have any of you guys experienced something like this? What helps you kill these feelings?