Pretty much the title.

Had an odd first Tinder date with an 8 about a month ago. The timing was bad (was the 2nd day of my new PhD programme, had a lot on my mind), I wasn't in state. Pretty much blew it as I never made a move. She talked, A LOT, about some pretty far out subjects. It made it impossible to switch from talking about some heavy shit to making out. That's on me for failure to control the frame, but it is what it is.

We ended the date with plans to see each other again, which she proposed. She wanted to come over so I could cook for her. Pinged her 3 days later, no response, so I moved on with no further contact.

Heard from her last night, 3 weeks later. She's coming to my place tomorrow for drinks.

I assume in this case I should just escalate hard once she's through the door? Not been in this precise situation so I'm not sure what she's thinking.