Lads,

So I'd been seeing this girl for a month. We slept together on the third date and she mentioned that she'd like to know if I was seeing anyone else. I wasn't, and told her that. However, in no way shape or form gave any hint towards exclusivity. We saw each other another three times, enjoyed hanging out and banging. She was definitely the pursuer at this point, although I was setting the dates, as a man should.

At this point we've hung out 6 times. However, I've been strictly keeping it to weekends, and last weekend she was out of town so I made plans for this coming weekend. This means it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other. We had plans to hang out today, and I spoke to her on the phone yesterday, good chat, laughing etc. Then 2 hours later she texts me saying.

Her: So I just wanted to get something off my chest, and can't bring myself to do it in person. I like you so far as a person, but I don't feel like we're feeling each other like we should at this point. I mean.. we haven't seen each other in two weeks and we barely talk.

Me: Okay, thanks for your honesty, I genuinely appreciate it. Disappointing cuz I like you too, but I understand what you're saying, two weeks felt like a while for me too. Anyways, I'm around if you ever change your mind :)

Her Immediate response: I just don't understand why we went two weeks without seeing each other.. Thank you for being so sweet about this.

Me: Ya, for sure. I know what you mean. And I do really appreciate you being up front.

Her: I just want you to know, I think you're a really great guy.

Me: :)

Anyways, she was really into me for the first while, but the 2 weeks off had an effect no doubt. Obviously going NC and getting on with shit. At the same time, I liked hooking up with this chick (very hot). Potential that I could get seconds you think?