I've been with my new GF for few months. She's a good woman. Doesn't smoke, Doesn't drink too much or party. If she drinks she knows here limits before she gets too drunk. She cooks and cleans. Has hobby, swimming and even joins me for gym but doesn't drag me down or ask to leave early. She tells me one more rep. One more rep. I know our relationship is new and this might fade. But sometimes we are at store shopping or looking for something. She'll say to me while stroking over my crotch, Can't wait to fuck you tonight. Sometimes she'll "accidentally" stroke it with this pervy smile on her face.

My friends who are now many in relationships. Are talking they are not having enough sex, maybe once every two months. They haven't had blow job for 4-5 months. that their girlfriend isn't as "bad" as mine. I think the reason is because i got standards. But they call it trust issues. They settled for girls who are out every single weekend. They settled for chicks who snapchat guys constantly 24/7, talk to new guys all the time at facebook or whatever social media. Going crazy liking guys on facebook or instagram. Then they say i got trust issues because i said to them.

I wouldn't be dating my girl if she was out all weekends, coming home wasted. Not remembering what happened. I wouldn't date her if she had 1000x guys DM'ing her on instagram or messenger and she responding to all of them.. Or if she was constantly talking to guys on snapchat or hanging out with guys all the time while drinking

Sure my girlfriend talks to guys, but knows the limit. She has gone drinking but invited me along. I've gone once and she has gone twice to her friends place to drink. She didn't want to go downtown without me. Sure few guys are DM'ing her but she ignores them, she doesn't give random dudes her snapchat. She can if she wants. I wouldn't stop her. She is free to do what she wants. She can come home drunk, fuck other guys. Yada yada yada. But there are consequences if she does so. This is a risk in all relationships. TRP teaches you to be aware of this. Not trying to lock her in cage.

I got my standards, how come it's seen as trust issues? It's not like i'm forbidding her to do what she wants. Yet they say i have trust issues. No it's actually i have standards. I won't settle for anything.

Has anybody had this issue? Where people claim you got trust issues when you actually don't.