Help. Am i hitting the wall?

Pleasant_Call8839 · 2021-02-13T08:02:29+00:00

Where are the mods?

Maxofwarcraft · 2021-02-13T05:46:14+00:00

I would ask why you left a guy after 3 years but that’s not the point of this post.

No, it’s not too late. But yes you’re running out of time. Know and remember this, every single day, thousands of girls turn 18 and enter the dating market place. That’s fresh competition for you.

You should focus on losing the weight and becoming fit (eat well and exercise). A woman in shape already has a huge leg up on others because it’s sadly uncommon in 2021.

Ok_Pension_2064 · 2021-02-13T04:20:00+00:00

Regardless of wether or not it’s too late it’s important to get your body right, redgardles of the wall you need to make sure you putting out your best self

Kuneyah · 2021-02-13T05:41:18+00:00

I thought this was a sub exclusively for men? There is one for women if I'm not mistaken

thebadmanpuntdbaxter · 2021-02-13T04:43:38+00:00

You don't need advice quickly. You need to wrangle the anxiety and make better choices day in day out. There's no wall for you. As much as you pray for it, nothing will end the misery. You can do difficult things or you can settle in for the saddest most comfortable life that you will regret until your dying breath. Step 1. Lockdown dopamine. Cold turkey. It'll fucking suck. But youll live. And you'll perceive time differently when you do. No special month. No reddit circlejerk. Stop making yourself comfortable. You don't deserve to win if you cant suspend rewards until you earn them.

gbizzle2 · 2021-02-13T05:06:14+00:00

No. Its not too late for any of those things. You will hit the wall regardless. It is not a bad thing unless you dont know how to treat a man.

2021-02-13T05:34:16+00:00

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BlindingTwilight · 2021-02-13T10:02:20+00:00

Loose weight. Eat less. Yes it is that simple and anyone who says otherwise is trying to sell you or they are insecure weak willed biatches who can’t stop stuffing carbs into their pasty unattractive bodies

FamilyLegacyWealth · 2021-02-13T11:33:52+00:00

Ain't Women And More Importantly Girls Aren't Allowed On Here ?

trpcops get out here Family Protect the House 💵👋🛌🔞🏘️

arabiandoll · 2021-02-13T07:47:08+00:00

That’s not true. I know a woman who is in her mid 40s who still has men obsessed with her and chasing her. All you have to do is not be desperate, be fit, take care of your appearance aka be pretty and be feminine and soft. Obviously there would be more options if you were younger but don’t worry I promise that it’s not too late if you just get it together. But if you’re desperate and anxious about it it’s never gonna happen. The type of men who are around 30 and want to marry a 20 yr old are not the type of men you want anyway.

Leonardslemons · 2021-02-13T05:03:11+00:00

You'll be fine. You are anxious because of the breakup, it's normal to feel that way after a significant change in your life. The emotional strain depletes you, your body thinks something is wrong, hence the anxiety. It's why you are probably having difficulty breathing right, why you think time is running out and need immediate answers. It's anxiety, its an emotion.

Anger is an emotion too, and when you are angry, things that wouldn't normally make you angry, will make you angry.

Its not different with anxiety. Fear perpetuates fear.

After some time, you will feel less anxious. Let your body adjust to this change, eventually it will realize you aren't in danger, and this feeling will subside.

In the mean time, let yourself vent your emotion. Cry in that pillow, go to a gun range, let off some steam.

Title	Help. Am i hitting the wall?
Author	NightOwl8080
Upvotes	1
Comments	35
Date	February 13, 2021 4:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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