Been with my LTR of almost 9 months now after being on TRP. She was my first while she had her cherry popped by her only previous LTR.

I know theres no unicorns and all that. I am looking to start a family in the future and see many green flags in her, however the fact of the past bother me. Its not like any horror stories on here. I got in in less time of dating than her ex and I also took her anal virginity that was refused to him before.

Is it worth it to break up and attempt to find a virgin this day and age? It is bothering me more now because I see her as a serious option to start a family later, but i would feel stupid wifing a woman who let someone else defile her before me.

While she is eager to please me and keep me happy, as well as supportive, I don't know if I can ever respect her enough to choose her to start a family later due to me seeing her as "someone elses leftovers".