how do I change my mindset from looking for a relationship to this red pill view?

SkorchZang · 2017-02-14T10:58:11+00:00

Look for the "The Book of Pook" (it's in the sidebar/ free via google). The changes you gotta make are not easy ones, they go deep. That's why this book is so good, it's nicely digestible chapters showing you examples of wrong blue pill thinking vs correct, accurate thinking. You'll probably be susprised how quickly your transformation starts happening.

It's that way because as soon as you start really thinking about these things in some depth, it becomes 100% obvious that everything you know is wrong, that you were deliberately lied to all your life about many things. The correct worldview is obvious, but only if you bother to look into things, and the blue pill way is all about never thinking about certain things, always taking them as immutable facts just because.

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-02-14T10:34:29+00:00

I would probably try to get her number and look at the long term when really I should be trying to get some action.

You SHOULD be trying to get some action.

She SHOULD be trying to get some commitment.

You aren't a challenge for a girl if you do the work for her. Why are you doing two jobs here?

Diabolo_Advocato · 2017-02-14T13:48:05+00:00

women love men with passion, whatever that may be. Passion can take many forms. At your age, put your passion into a selfish endeavor - a hobby, working out, etc. and you will quickly notice when a woman wants to steal that passion for herself.

don't neglect the other commenters either, they make valid points.

quicklogaccount · 2017-02-14T10:39:56+00:00

Well, you need to approach the girl, for whatever purposes you have in mind. This bit doesn't change. I suppose that this far you've already learned that befriending a woman BEFORE is a terrible way to get a sexually active relationship with her.
That said, push yourself into keeping more than one sexually active relationship for a month or so. In presence of abundance the "sex should exist only in monogamous long term relationships" indoctrination perishes quickly.

SynfulVisions · 2017-02-14T14:56:30+00:00

I don't think you understand what risk actually means.

If you approach a girl and get shot down, your situation hasn't changed. Risk implies that you stand to lose something. It'd be different if you were in some sort of relationship with her or you had a high SMV to maintain, for you there's no risk because there's no actual loss.

QuantumSpecter · 2017-02-14T15:30:17+00:00

Thanks cant wait to take a look

QuantumSpecter · 2017-02-14T15:31:06+00:00

I really like this perspective thank you

skeptixon · 2017-02-14T16:24:09+00:00

No amount of reading will do it. It must be via experience. You must experience hooking up with a girl who wants only fun. You must experience hearing girls tell you what you're doing is wrong only to do it with you.

Title	how do I change my mindset from looking for a relationship to this red pill view?
Author	QuantumSpecter
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	February 14, 2017 9:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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