I've been reading TRP for the better part of a year now and Ive been learning. Taking notes, condensing, refining and tweaking so that I can remind myself day to day how to act. It can be difficult to maintain frame but I'm getting better at it.

Now I have a a typical scenario, any woman who progressively tries to talk to me ends up flaking. I'll hold frame and act alpha over messages but they always disappear or they lose attraction.then there's the women that obviously I find attractive that if I talk first they bp me(obviously).

Basically my question is: How can I get women to chase me and stay keen without me having to make a first move and lose them?

Seems no matter what I do they bail, even a 5/10 at best would bail because for once THEY get the power to choose my fate. AWALT.

any ideas? Thanks in advance