How does a lower middle class peasant go about dating upper class women?

ProofPear6 · 2019-07-24T10:17:45+00:00

If you are around college age you can get away with drinking beer. Never from cans, cans are for the lower class, upper class drinks bottles. When you are older you drink wine. And eat cheese. You don't smear things on toast, better is to have a cheese platter. Fast food is for the poor. You don't eat anything from the frozen aisle, fish sticks are for lower class. Eat fresh produce that you cook, have a cook, and a cleaner, and your future kids will be managed by an au pair.

Watch upper class sports like tennis and hockey, soccer and football are for the plebs. If you play a sport you do squash. You don't watch tv, you read newspapers. Or better; fancy magazines like National Geographic or The Economist. In the past you have read intellectually stimulating and classical works like The Prince or The Nicomachean Ethics. You know about the Chicago school of economics and Milton Friedman, you don't know who Joseph Schumpeter is. On management you consider Mintzberg your bible.

Work on proper pronunciation, simple language is not appreciated. You have upper class style, no dirty clothes, no t-shirts, no open shoes, no logos or lettering on the clothes, you are not a walking billboard or a little boy. You have style, but not too much style either. If you are obviously stylish you fail.

You don't do work that is nine-to-five, you don't punch a clock, you don't have a boss telling you what to do. You set your own time, work independently or direct others. Good jobs are manager, entrepreneur, lawyer, finance. You don't have improper opinions, you vote right wing, you care about rules, a deal is a deal, a contract is a contract. When it is not in your interest and you can get away with it you ignore contracts. You never say that you do.

You don't talk about money. Or even better; 'In our family we don't talk about money'. You feel that being rich is a tough job because you have to worry about so much and manage it all. Have a brokerage account, talk with authority about the latest move by the Fed and how it is necessary to keep inflation under control. Worry about the profit margins of banks. Caring about the environment is for activist weirdos.

When traveling you go to expensive places, or cultural places in Europe. If you are adventurous you go to Nepal or climb Kilimanjaro. You go sailing with friends on the mediterranean. You care about traditions and the status quo.

chazthundergut · 2019-07-24T06:43:16+00:00

The fundamental problem isnt that you're lower class or poor. I have seen way too many "upper class" chicks slumming it with bums to believe that nonsense.

The fundamental problem is that you perceive yourself as not good enough for her. And since females will naturally fall into your frame, she is subconsciously agreeing with you and disqualifying you as a potential mate.

I struggled for years believing that I was too fat to fuck a hot chick. And guess what? I was always right.

The moment I started to truly believe that I wasnt too fat (or too bald or too short) is the moment I started to succeed. When I knew it in my bones that I am the prize.

And dont lie. Not for moral reasons, but because when you lie you are telling yourself that your truth isnt good enough for her. And having that mindset will backfire every time.

Here is a video that really helped me understand this perspective:

https://youtu.be/pRr1Y1g7SWc

boy_named_su · 2019-07-24T04:39:30+00:00

Watch Six Degrees of Separation and American Psycho

Go hang out on campus

Talk about sailing and Brexit

Read the Economist

Don't swear

Dont be overly familiar with people

jchrist98 · 2019-07-24T04:50:37+00:00

Make money. And lift.

Lambdal7 · 2019-07-24T05:44:39+00:00

Just have excellent wit.

Almost no guys have wit. You can impress any rich girl with good wit, banter, push and pull.

oooKenshiooo · 2019-07-24T06:35:00+00:00

Been there, done that. I can help here.

TL;DR since (young, hot) women rarely make any money of their own, upper class girls are merely peasants with different manners.

TL;DR own the things money can't buy: Time, freedom, self worth and inner peace.

First of all, there is a difference between being upper class and being genuinely rich.

Upper class women (or, to be more accurate: women born or married to upper class men) tend to give a lot more about money than those who are genuinely rich.

The genuinely rich women have access to so much money they have lost pretty much any relationship to it whatsoever.

Also, since most upper class and rich women (the young and desirable ones at least) rarely make their own money, there is a difference in whether they readily have access to funds.

So, there is four types of women. UC and genuinely rich (GR), both of the funded and unfunded variety.

If they have to bag daddy for every dollar, they will often be manipulative bitches and I advise you to stay away. Their mood will heavily swing with how much access to money they have at the moment. Being Chad (or even Tyrone) is pretty much the way to go.

If they are upper class but financially independent, they will care whether you have your life in check, about your job, your lifestyle, etc. They try avoiding dating down at any cost.

If they are of the loaded variety, they will most likely have noticed by now that they can buy pretty much anything, but it does not fill their inner void. They will not care about your status as long as you can make them feel something.

RStonePT · 2019-07-24T15:50:39+00:00

don't be the white guy version of 'bobs and vagine'

Erfbender · 2019-07-24T04:05:34+00:00

No one will teach you the secret handshake, sorry dude, it gets passed down father to son on prom night

JedYorks · 2019-07-24T04:57:26+00:00

They don’t get the same immunizations. They were never given fluoride tablets in school, they were reading Plato in the 4th grade while you were reading Captain underpants. They drink purified water and breastfeed. They ate healthy meals growing up while you were eating dinobites.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-07-25T01:07:50+00:00

Have high SMV, shitpost a lot, make sure none of them are intimidated by some girls' from your pasts vcards.

Title	How does a lower middle class peasant go about dating upper class women?
Author	Youdeservedit11
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Date	July 24, 2019 3:38 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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