How does TRP handle "accept her past"

648262 · 2015-06-03T23:22:56+00:00

As the great prophet Dr.Dre once said: you can't make a hoe a housewife.

If she was a slut in her past then she is still capable of being a slut. In simple terms: she will always be a slut.

Accept that, or move on.

NotQuiteRedPill · 2015-06-04T00:29:17+00:00

Listen, dude. You're either in serious denial or you have concocted this scenario to fuck with TRP. In either case, good luck with that.

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-06-03T22:51:37+00:00

I'll stop judging women for their past when jobs stop asking for resumes.

druganswer · 2015-06-04T03:34:05+00:00

This is a troll...

idle_reception · 2015-06-03T22:39:17+00:00

What do you mean by bad past?

I made the mistake of loving a women more than myself and forgetting her bad past and it ended up almost ruining my life.

stickfiguresk · 2015-06-04T01:29:28+00:00

OP, granted! Let's say she's only been plowed by two of the thuggish motherfuckers on the planet. And they've taught this bitch how to suck dick high on meth in a helicopter! She's the biggest trooper on the planet! It's a lie, but I'll grant it.

That still means she's worn the fuck out. And you've got some fucking shoes to fill. If you dont beat the shit out of her because she burnt some toast, and then dope her up to do it again, you're going to be a little BP faggot to her.

Man, at least get oneitis over a clean girl. I know girls like that and they cause half the drama in their life--that's just a woman's nature. How horrific she does it depends on what tools her little solipsistic mind has collected. And that bitch has a bunker full of WMDs! lol, Jeb Bush is talking about invading her when he gets elected!

NotQuiteRedPill · 2015-06-04T00:23:11+00:00

Enjoy your HSV, HPV, HIV, HCV cocktail.

boxofcookies101 · 2015-06-04T02:46:08+00:00

Why are you even in this relationship? Are you that desperate for pussy and affection that you're trying to date a woman with such a shit reputation?

A reputation is a mans most valuable asset you guard it with your life.

This also speaks volumes about how your viewing yourself right now. You said this woman is a degenerate and has all this baggage. Why would you put up with this woman and her baggage. For some sex? If so this better be some of throughout best sex in the world. And even then it woukfnt be worth it in the long run.

Get your shit together man. Improve yourself so you don't have to put up with ex junkie degenerates. You can just as easy pick up a normal "hot" chick by simply being in shape.

DreamBoatGuy25 · 2015-06-04T06:43:30+00:00

The only advice I get is either BP = ppl feel bad for her im such a judgemental asshole and i should accept her past and appreciate her now or RP = wtf are you doing with that skank

The real answer is that it's entirely up to your discretion because you are the only one here who is actually dating her, not r relationships, and not TRP.

You say love her incredibly deeply, but her past haunts you like crazy. Well it seems you're at a cross roads. One of these emotions is going to win out; your love for her or your disgust with her past.

Regardless of what anyone else says you should do what you think will make you happy because life is too short to do otherwise.

schizoiddude · 2015-06-04T08:29:05+00:00

her terrible past literally fucking haunts me is ruining my life.

it eats me alive and makes me want to kill myself.

i hate her

Read what you wrote. These are not the words of someone who is happy with his relationship.

Forget about playing Spot-the-Slut. That's all just fantasy and speculation. What you need to address is this visceral revulsion you feel toward her. That is real, undeniable, and non-negotiable. Right or wrong, just as no one can talk a woman into being attracted to betas, likewise neither you nor anyone else can talk your into being accepting of her past. If you were to stay with this girl, are you content to live the rest of your life like this? Because these feelings don't magically fade away. There will always be that nagging voice in the back of your mind, all that imagery you've dreamed up about her past, fueling your doubt and resentment.

You say you love her, so turn it around for a moment. Do you want the woman you love to be in a relationship with someone who calls her a degenerate and sulks endlessly about her past? This situation isn't healthy for either of you.

feminazis_stalk_me · 2015-06-04T18:08:47+00:00

You can't fix people, and she is definitely broken. That being said - why would you even consider a woman with that much baggage? Most sane men would cross the street to avoid her if they knew her past.

Past behavior is a predictor of future behavior and you're not just playing with fire, you are walking a tight-rope and juggling fire torches over a sea of napalm. It's not a question of if you'll get burned, but how bad - and the answer is PRETTY DAMN BAD.

With a world full of girls who are less damaged and not likely to get you murdered by a drug lord ex-boyfriend, WHY? Are you just being a Captain Save-A-Hoe, or do you believe you don't have any other options available to you aside from this piece of work?

It's like going to a car dealership and passing up the sports cars, the family cars and the economy cars and picking out the most rusted, broke-down piece of shit hoopty ride you can find and then paying full original sticker price and signing a five-year loan. What is wrong with you? How can you not see how bad a decision this is? I hope you're a troll, because my faith in men just took a hit reading this post.

Carbone · 2015-06-04T00:06:38+00:00

How Old are you ?

prodigy2throw · 2015-06-04T02:20:25+00:00

I don't know man as a late bloomer I feel like this is something that will always follow me and has made me reluctant to get into LTRs.

No matter who I end up with, unless she's a hamplanet or shut-in, she will have had more sexual and relationship experience than me. Its a weird jealousy you feel which I honestly have no answer for.

My thinking is I have to play catch up and get as many sexual experiences as possible to a point where I am comfortable with myself and my sexual history. Maybe you need to do the same?

RemyPrice · 2015-06-04T18:56:00+00:00

Holy fucking hell. Dude, you're in need of some counseling or an older male role model who can slap you around a bit. TRP can't help you here.

ThePedanticF0x · 2015-06-05T14:49:47+00:00

Your ability to rationalize is almost feminine. Realize this and then stop. Separate your emotions from the facts. You will either come to accept the facts or you will continue to delude yourself.

A little delusion is a gratifying indulgence, to the point of being therapeutic. As long as you are fully aware that it is a delusion, and must soon snap back to reality.

Do not be so arrogant as to think that you can remain in a state of semi-delusion and still call yourself a advocate of TRP philosophies. You are purple, and as such you are no better than blue.

Be a man. See reality for what it is. Separate emotion from logic. Make the hard decisions. Take charge and grow up.

coldchrome · 2015-06-04T00:25:12+00:00

Most of the responses refer to sluttiness. What if despite all the tattoos and piercings and drugs he's only been with 4 guys and 2 girls?

coldchrome · 2015-06-03T23:35:05+00:00

She says things like:

" you don't know how to accept me. I won't feel guilty for who I was. I might have a certain look but I conducted myself pretty fucking well."

Title	How does TRP handle "accept her past"
Author	coldchrome
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Comments	71
Date	June 3, 2015 10:20 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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