How to respond to excuses?

SirKolbath · 2020-06-07T14:54:15+00:00

Women who are interested in you make up excuses to see you. Women who are not interested will make up excuses not to see you.

It really boils down to that. You are the prize, my friend. She can accept that-- or not. I assure you there are a series of girls out there who will.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-06-07T14:33:11+00:00

As soon as she says “she will see” you should forget about her

Human_Extreme · 2020-06-07T14:26:59+00:00

Lmao this girl is gonna give you a headache for sure man, I would next very hard. Save yourself the headache. You are on her leash bro, are you her puppy?

Take care.

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-06-07T14:28:06+00:00

But she said she will see.

It's either a fucking YES

Or a no

It's a no this time

I gave her a time limit to make up her mind

She decided that when she saw the notification for your message

she still doesn't know if she has time

It's a no

she said "ok as you wish"

She's a bitch

I replyed that I invited her and than she said that she's kidding but even if she comes we can only cuddle

Dude you should really work on your English

I think she is using excuses, how do I reply?

You don't. Simply hit up other women, this one's a waste of time.

comcain · 2020-06-07T14:58:30+00:00

Sounds like there's nothing there. Rebait your fishing hook, cast it back in, and let it sit.

Cheers

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-07T15:01:57+00:00

"I will see"

She will see that left on read for all eternity.

319Skew · 2020-06-07T16:06:20+00:00

"Sure."

Then stop chasing. A woman who wants you will put out token resistance. She won't shoot herself in the foot. If she wants attention then she will dangle the pussy shaped carrot to all her orbiters while clearing her schedule for Chad.

Pink_Hanna · 2020-06-07T18:17:30+00:00

The rule of thumb is invite once and forget. Never invite a second time. The ball is on her side and if she doesn't pass it back, then there's no game. Move on to someone else and you will save time, energy, money, you will invest in someone worthier of your attention. Remember that women have backup plans. Learn to understand when that plan has a tag with your name on.

boy_named_su · 2020-06-07T18:37:23+00:00

bitches will take the bus across town late at night for good dick

she's not interested

Relaxredditrockstar · 2020-06-07T14:31:11+00:00

when she flakes you forget about her. If she chooses to come back don’t put any time or emotion in until she’s in your bed

Brave-Snow · 2020-06-07T15:13:05+00:00

drop her. waste of time

ShineOnHomie · 2020-06-07T18:04:26+00:00

you need to read the sidebar.

DucardthaDon · 2020-06-08T16:30:46+00:00

Your post is confusing, you need to clarify much more. If this is how you come across to girls then it's no wonder she's making excuses.

Fix up your game son.

alphakari · 2020-06-07T15:57:01+00:00

Whenever girls are wishy washy, just reply back with what they said.

IE: "I'll see." "You'll see?"

If she doesn't give something more firm, either don't answer or immediately roll with something along the lines of, "You seem busy, let's figure it out another day." You can put a little more bravado in if it's a phone call though, and say something like "We're both busy people blah blah blah," but over text i'm not a fan of schemes that are too deep.

Then either hit her up in a couple days (4 seems solid for me, might not be for you,) or I just treat it as the start of a soft next if I'm feeling like the plate's falling off.

You gotta be on it from the start though. Frame isn't that you feel disrespected or offended, but that you just don't have interest in non-confirmations when it comes to scheduling shit.

Don't try to bully a bitch into saying yes either, that's how you get someone flaking then ghosting you. You don't want her to come if she doesn't want to come. It's funner to be alone than with a bitch who doesn't wanna be there.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-06-07T14:32:36+00:00

Did you actually tell her "lets meet up for a hook up?"

If so, sidebar: plausible deniability and ASD.

SeasonedRP · 2020-06-07T20:10:12+00:00

That she suggested she would come over even after all of the awkward things you said is somewhat promising. Don't reply-if she wants to come over, she'll text you and tell you that.

RelucBeam · 2020-06-08T22:03:07+00:00

Don't give women ultimatums.

Title	How to respond to excuses?
Author	tileye
Upvotes	8
Comments	26
Date	June 7, 2020 2:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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