I quit.

Dr_Shakalu22 · 2015-09-26T01:00:02+00:00

I WISH I would have found TRP at 16

trpfieldreport · 2015-09-26T00:39:39+00:00

You're 16 my man.

Lift weights, study diet, study muscle-building, find some role models. Find a gym with some dudes who might take you under their wing.

Get into martial arts- try jiu jitsu.

Get the fuck out and about man. Pick up a sport.

Everyday I wake up I feel like I'm miles away from where I want to be, but looking back I'm miles away from where I was. Just gotta knockout a couple steps everyday and pretty quickly you're way ahead of where you started.

It's a long fucking walk. Learn to love pain and discomfort. Learn to revel in the shit. Embrace the suck.

When bad shit happens in my life, I fucking smile and laugh at the absurdity. That's all you really can do. Fuck it, don't let anything break your spirit.

SexistFlyingPig · 2015-09-26T02:23:05+00:00

You got lots of time. At 16, you're an unfinished product. Lift. Eat well. Lift some more.

Physical attraction cannot be negotiated. If you're hitting the gym regularly, there will be lots of women attracted to you. They won't have any control over it. Just like your ex-girlfriend isn't attracted to you right now because her attraction can't be negotiated.

absentrider · 2015-09-26T03:52:51+00:00

When your felling like this:

Stop what you are doing;
Take a deep breath;
Say out loud: I'm bigger than my problems;
Say it as many times as needed. I'm bigger than my problems. Don't stop until you feel you are, in fact, bigger than your problems;

Your fat? Lift. No friends? Socialize. No goals? Find them.

Problems in the way? You are bigger than them.

Challengedge · 2015-09-26T01:53:53+00:00

On one hand, you're self pitying and thats harmful. I can easily tell you to toughen up but you're 16. Really, that is a positive. You will grow and grow and become a man. But yku have to keep going, I mean it. You can't slow down or take a break or quit. Even at your lowest moments, keep moving forward.

LIFT. Eat Right. READ. Get Hobbies. Meet Girls. Have Fun

Just try to relax buddy. You'll be fine.

RPmatrix · 2015-09-26T07:45:17+00:00

Hi bro and welcome to TRP --- first, Stay with this usernym, so we can get to know you a bit -- I usually wont answer people who use throwaways -- so don't

next, you are SO not alone mate, it's sad.

If only you knew how many of the guys here feel very much as you do; Lucky TRP is here for you!

I feel kind of lost. As much as I hate to admit it, my life kind of revolved around her. I have no friends of my own whatsoever, the large majority of people tend to hate me, I don't really even have hobbies. I don't know where to go from here but I know I want to change. Socially, mentally and especially physically. I want it all to change. I'm a useless sack of shit and I want to improve.

Again, You bro, are Not alone!, and as

I know nobody can make these changes for me so all I want is a small push in the right direction.

That's right, it's ALL up to you, so that's really good to hear you say so.

Here, take your time and read these links; (they're from TRP's sidebar, where you'll find much more there but this is IMHO a good place to start) Also some of the "manoshpere" sites linked are well worth checking out, Knowledge Is Power so gather as much of it as you can

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2q582c/a_comprehensive_guide_to_the_red_pill/

http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/

http://puerarchy.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/TheFuturist_TheMisandryBubble.pdf

These will give you a solid basis to continue your RP self improvment program!

enjoy and welcome to where you need to be mate, don't worry, 16 is a cunt of a time but it get's Better, "we promise"!

cheers bro

matrix

[deleted] · 2015-09-26T11:13:16+00:00

How the fuck can you be lurking on TRP for a year or two and still be skinny fat and with a girl who say to your face she's not attracted to you???

How the fuck can you lurk on a mine of information and advices telling you to fix your diet, lift weights, find your mission, make yourself your priority, spin plates, learn game and the 1001 ways to pass shit tests and still be fucking "lost" and coming here whining?!?!

Get a fucking grip son! Stop "lurking" and start doing the goddamn things you know you have to do already!

Flash7475 · 2015-09-26T00:24:30+00:00

whine whine whine. dont complain that you quit on life and that it sucks, take control of it and be happy again.

1) Go buy wieghts
2) get a routine (Ex. 20 pushups a night, 40 curls ect.)
3) work out for 3 months (and eat healthy food not junk)
4) see results and feel good
5) Women will flock to you

visit /r/fitness regularly

billthane · 2015-09-26T19:36:50+00:00

I have one piece of advice for you - frontload your life. Let me provide a brief analogy.

Let's say every week you get a few homework assignments. You have two choices: do them ASAP, or wait until the last minute. At first, it doesn't seem to matter. No matter what, they get done, right? I don't know if you've experienced both sides of this, but nothing could be farther from the truth. If you do them ASAP, you free yourself up to do other things, and have no worries. If you wait, you begin to accumulate a mountain of work. Logically you know that it'll only take a few hours to finish, but it's always in your mind. Emotionally, it will cripple you. You'll put off other things because you need to do this work, but then you won't do it because it seems so daunting and you doubt your ability to make a difference.

Life is the same way. The more you add value to yourself when you're young, the more stress-free and successful you will be in the future. Getting in shape, studying, learning hobbies and skills - these are all things that you need to do ASAP before you become complacent. When you hit 250 pounds, the idea of going to the gym makes you physically ill. When you're 35 years old, you've given up on going to university. Don't let this happen to you. Frontload the work in your life - do as much as you can to improve yourself as soon as you can.

PrivateRule34 · 2015-09-28T23:13:16+00:00

I want it all to change. I'm a useless sack of shit and I want to improve.

Pls, no, otherwise I'll have no one to compare myself to, laugh at, and feel better about myself. :DDDDD

Title	I quit.
Author	Tiny-Tiger
Upvotes	13
Comments	27
Date	September 26, 2015 12:13 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3mekgq/i_quit/
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