I'm having serious difficulties in celebrating personal achievements without close friends. Normal to go into your late 20's as a loner?

Rosace_89 · 2018-12-05T10:30:15+00:00

similar situation, work, gym(2*/w) and evening classes

do a team sport one evening a week, or a dance classes, or anything

ramfex21 · 2018-12-05T10:42:29+00:00

Making friends to me seems hard.. I don’t know how to get past the sort of friends/acquaintances phase with a lot of people. Most of my close friends I have been friends with since school.

trpppp123 · 2018-12-05T12:04:49+00:00

You should work on creating a better social life before looking for an LTR. Join group classes, once you become a regular at them, you'll start seeing regular faces, and you can initiate events outside class with people who are regularly talking to you there. From there, you can slowly meet them more frequently, etc.

Howdoiusesync · 2018-12-05T14:49:32+00:00

read, how to make friends and influence people

ibhova · 2018-12-05T14:09:01+00:00

Join a class or do a hobby you enjoy. Try to connect with people there,its all about networking and always creating new relations.
You like bowling? Yeah i like bowling. Great you should come to our next tournament and be part of the team

whatdidshewrite · 2018-12-05T15:33:37+00:00

I’m the same way to be honest. As soon as I accomplish something, it feels good for about 5 seconds and then it stops. Recently I got into one of the law schools I really wanted to get into and I felt nothing, and I know if I don’t tell anyone I won’t celebrate it. I don’t know what’s wrong with me

outfo · 2018-12-05T15:38:08+00:00

Join toastmasters and a networking group like BNI. Have a lot of coffees and biz lunches.

astrogatorjones · 2018-12-05T12:51:24+00:00

if having no social life bothers you then do something about it instead of coming here looking for more excuses

Title	I'm having serious difficulties in celebrating personal achievements without close friends. Normal to go into your late 20's as a loner?
Author	bf1bro18
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	December 5, 2018 9:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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