In shock

willowhawk · 2018-08-08T10:06:30+00:00

Imagine this is a mental workout for you. Just like a physical workout, when your body goes through a strain it hurts. The first time you workout it hurts the most, then less and less as your body adapts and strengthens. Some days are harder then others but your body keeps improving.

Same with you mind. Take in the pain, accept it knowing that it will pass. Over time, and countless other girls your mentality will adapt to became strong.

It's good you are 16, means you will have your whole adult life as a strong man.

At 18 a girl would make me feel suicidal with her games. Years later and I am resilient to everything that gets thrown because I've been through the crucible and came out strong.

abudun79 · 2018-08-08T09:12:20+00:00

Those emotions will pass soon enough. Be thankful you learn these thing from experience at such a young age. You cannot imagine how hard it is to find that out when you're two or three times as old and have built a life on lies, loosing everything.

vandaalen · 2018-08-08T10:13:07+00:00

LOL. Had nearly the exact same thing happen to me when I was a teen 25 years ago . Killed all my feelings for her, although admittedly I was just together with her because she was horny all the time and I had a pecker 24/7.

Ended up fucking her anyways and nearly impregnated her, because I absolutely had to jizz into her pussy. Yes, I made many retarded choices in my life.

Anyways. Thank God you found out she is slut before you developed feelings.

chomponthebit · 2018-08-08T09:29:50+00:00

AWALT. And remember, if you’re ever in a LTR with a girl who decides to do Thailand or wherever for a month, high odds she’s gonna be getting Aussie, Norwegian, etc dick while she’s away.

I went through similar experiences in high school. Always remember, she’s not yours. She’s yours “for now”

kidkidkid123321 · 2018-08-08T12:17:09+00:00

If she angers you you've already lost. Don't over invest Diversify the pussy. Hedge with crypto.

nikopua · 2018-08-08T11:18:33+00:00

So much for loving you. Guess AWALT and you meant nothing to her. She made you feel special, lead you on and then..

MattyAnon · 2018-08-08T12:56:40+00:00

, I feel sick and empty

You let her lies pump up your ego.

Don't let girls do this in future, take what they say less seriously.

sircomeseyesd · 2018-08-08T16:19:05+00:00

She was ready to go! Apparently who it was with didn't really matter much.

chim_city · 2018-08-08T17:52:17+00:00

Be thankful you learned this lesson at a young 16.

Don't ever forget this feeling in your stomach, it will act as the catalyst to your own improvements

waynebradysworld · 2018-08-08T20:09:01+00:00

If you ever start feeling guilty or ashamed for shunning her, or like you should give her another chance..

Just picture some smelly black guy raw dogging her and cumming on her face right after she told you she had feelings for you.

That should get your mind right. She's dead to you.

[deleted] · 2018-08-08T12:32:55+00:00

There you go young man!

Liu_Wang · 2018-08-08T14:12:59+00:00

ok, so she told you she wanted your cawk and you did what? i dont think you can be mad at her lol

Exodus230 · 2018-08-08T15:11:18+00:00

She was no virgin lol

Tousen71 · 2018-08-08T17:38:05+00:00

Don’t block her. That’s petty and emotional. Just stop giving her your time and attention until she’s ready to add another notch on her belt.

dreadfrog · 2018-08-08T21:37:50+00:00

What makes her interesting?

Try to answer that. Why are you interested in her? Is it just because she has a vagina and tits, or maybe she has talent, a great personality, is creative, understanding, makes you happy, etc?

If you have oneitis, most likely it's happening entirely in your head and the girl is nothing special. So I want you to sit down and think about this for enough time until you get an answer: what's so great about this woman? Make a list, write it down, you will be surprised at how short it is. Especially at your age, because girls that age are... well, unfinished, to be polite. Then strike out all the stuff that's not real because it was just you putting her on a pedestal. There, oneitis cured! Cheers.

Have a nice day ;)

Nyquil-Junkie · 2018-08-08T21:39:56+00:00

I feel sick and empty. Blocked her and channelling all my negative energy as anger into the gym.

You're joking... right? Sounds like the whine of an incel.

mysteryspoN · 2018-08-08T21:49:50+00:00

I’m 16 too and don’t worry. The girl I had a crush on for a year who was into me hooked up with some guy in front of me that she just met at a house party. Oneitis sucks. Read rational male and you’ll learn so much man trust me

IrrelevantRaptor · 2018-08-08T21:53:51+00:00

You’ll have to realize that when dealing with girls, all sorts of logical reasoning gets thrown out the window.

redd_reality · 2018-08-09T00:36:13+00:00

All things come full circle. One day you will be in abundance and she will not.

Rejoice in the fact your abundance will come after your scarcity. She will get her scarcity when she least suspects it and it will last the rest of her life.

MakeMenGreatAgain44 · 2018-08-08T11:16:21+00:00

Why the anger? You should have slept with her and nexted and or plated

anonymous6578 · 2018-08-08T12:16:52+00:00

Exactly my point. She will see from a distance what a colossal mistake she has made. It is all up to you to make a better you!

HurricaneHugues · 2018-08-08T15:27:24+00:00

Why did u block her? Shes ot your girl. Just practice the material on her and fuck her as a plate. Shes already dtf. All u have to do is invite her over.

empatheticapathetic · 2018-08-08T21:14:38+00:00

I had the exact same experience. We were both virgins but I was 25. Then I found TRP.

expansion101 · 2018-08-08T21:33:57+00:00

This talk of inviting her somewhere and getting with her anyway: don't do it.

First of all, you don't know about this other guy. Could he be passing something onto you? Second, she has disrespected you. Getting with her will only mean she won in getting her alpha, and yet still receives your attention. You'd be disrespecting yourself.

IrrelevantRaptor · 2018-08-08T21:53:45+00:00

You’ll have to realize that when dealing with girls, all sorts of logical reasoning gets thrown out the window.

Kommanderdude · 2018-08-08T13:12:34+00:00

Lmao! It’s more than likely your fault. Many a cock fag such as yourself has missed the opportunity to bang a girl by taking too long to get in her pants or not pulling the trigger fast enough. A bitches hypergamy isn’t gonna wait on your beta ass to alpha the fuck up and bang the shit out of her. One day you’ll realize it’s not her fault because bitches be what bitches be. It’s your fault she shagged that dude because you were a goddamn pussy and he wasn’t.

TehJimmyy · 2018-08-08T11:39:50+00:00

/u/nikopua check this gem out.

Title	In shock
Author	anonymous6578
Upvotes	55
Comments	115
Date	August 8, 2018 8:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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