Is it worth it?

ToldYouNotToWorry_ · 2020-05-11T11:51:01+00:00

“I would say we are exclusive FWBs”

😂

almost a brand new sentence

dude, she’s your girlfriend

axiscontra · 2020-05-11T11:54:06+00:00

TRP says you're supposed to be clear from the jump. you should revisit the boundaries of girl. I always let them know I have no responsibility towards commitment unless I tell you I commit so assume im always fucking girls when youre not around (even if im not). of course I dont say it so crudely.

that girl basically got you committed to her thats no fwb lol, thats a girlfriend.

final verdict: in my opinion its not worth it, constant pussy from someone you enjoy is better than any ONS. String the other girl along make some excuse until you're done fucking your FWB. There;s also the chance they are testing you. If they are friends they will find out lol. Dont be dumb

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-05-11T11:51:21+00:00

I would say we are exclusive FWBs

If you’re NOT in an LTR she’s a plate. My current wouldn’t dare to give me an ultimatum. Whenever she starts something my stock response has been ”no one’s got a gun to your head.”

girl 1 who im currently hooking up with made it clear if I "cheated" on her shed leave me for good.

Who’s the captain here? FWB’s should be happy you’re friends at all; let alone with benefits. Time to see if girl 2 will benefit you better.

Or be honest with yourself and make it exclusive. If she’s worth it.

Godspeed and good luck!

UEMcGill · 2020-05-11T14:40:51+00:00

This wouldn't be a problem if you had an abundance mentality. Plates, spin and Plates fall. Notice the s?

Who gives a fuck if plate 1 falls? Who gives a fuck if plate 2 tells plate 1 what's going on?

Fuck, girl 2 might just tell girl one some shit because she's a cunt and you still haven't fucked her.

This is like talking about what you would do if you won the lottery and had a million dollars. You haven't won it, and you don't have a million dollars. It doesn't matter what you would do with girl 2 because you don't have shit.

BlackjointnerD · 2020-05-11T12:45:41+00:00

..........Bro she is your girlfriend and it looks like your already in her frame. Matter of fact it looks like she tricked you into it and is holding your nuts.

Can you admit that before I say anything else please?

zboo1h · 2020-05-11T17:08:23+00:00

Never make a decision about anything based on what a woman says she will or won't do. Ever.

spartan_samurai · 2020-05-11T12:34:33+00:00

Girl 1 seems like your gf and not your FWB if she is warning about sleeping with other girls.

If you make a move on girl 2, she wouldn't keep that quiet as they like gossiping.

So if you don't care about losing girl1 then make a move on girl2 or find someone who is not a mutual friend with the girl you are sleeping with.

manfrombelow · 2020-05-11T12:44:13+00:00

Since you and her are FWB, means she's a plate. And if she's a plate, you're not obliged to commit to her in any forms.

Because let's face it: Since you and her are not exclusive, she might as well be already fucking Chads behind your back, so why the fuck you think you should commit to her?

Guarnerre1995 · 2020-05-11T13:28:45+00:00

If you want to explore, go for it.

You can lose both doing so.

If you're having a good time doing girl 1 and she js giving you enough pussy time, why would you ruin that, for now?

Its not about the quantity, atleast for me. Being promiscuous as a guy is not good imo.

But she is still a plate, remember that.

SteveSan82 · 2020-05-11T14:08:57+00:00

Tell her to walk then. She doesnt tell you what you can and cannot do. If you let her do that, you will become her bitch.

Me? I'd fuck the other girl. Develop an abundance mindset

319Skew · 2020-05-11T14:18:53+00:00

If you're exclusive then you're bf/gf and she's calling the shots for your sex options.

Who's idea was it to be exclusive and why?

You're afraid of loss so you're not spinning plates or have oneitus.

Better question is why does a "FWB" get to tell you how to fuck?

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-05-11T17:18:58+00:00

Wtf is an exclusive FWB? Just say gf.

IXseed · 2020-05-11T18:53:12+00:00

You CANNOT let your actions be controlled by your bitches feelings. Now SHE'S pimping YOU.

Fuck the 2nd bitch and tell your 1st bitch about it.

alphakari · 2020-05-11T19:28:43+00:00

If you're exclusive it's an LTR.

OneLastLight- · 2020-05-11T11:51:26+00:00

It's probably a setup dude... She's using her friend to test you.

bonersNlaughs · 2020-05-11T13:34:47+00:00

Friends with benefits yer hole. Does gash 2 let it be known it's just a one night stand? Does gash 1 know it wouldn't be a friend cheating on her or leaving you. If one of my close friends ever were to become a post of tranny, I wouldn't but if I was ever to pump his frankenstein gash he'd be my Friend and then with a wet warm near miraculous modern medical operation.

Friends with benefits is getting gear and whores for the lads, after a good coupon came up then. What wouldn't you do if she threatened to leave you and women can get to fuck, no prob and I'll leave a burd if she, got rifled of people I know or when with my.

What u thinking, yourself? I'm not meaning to be disparaging, I'm not gon blowsmoke up an ass either and tbh this is a you problem mate

Title	Is it worth it?
Author	OneLastLight-
Upvotes	6
Comments	28
Date	May 11, 2020 11:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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