Have been in an ltr with a "sweet" " innocent" girl for two years. She's 24, I'm 21. She's only been with one other guy and was homeschooled until college. started having gut feelings of cheating with no evidence to back it up a while ago. Admitted to get a few times that stuff she was doing made me insecure even though they we're pretty small things.This morning looked at her frequent locations on her iPhone and it says she was all the way across the city at this one address Wednesday and Thursday between 1:30 am and 4:30 am while i was asleep, and thursday morming after I left for work. I asked her first today if she left the apartment, she denied it but says she "got up" a bunch of times the other night. Then I showed her the frequent locations app on her iPhone (which she did not know existed) and she immediatly started to cry. She said "I don't know what's going on", "oh my god what if I was sleep walking" "what if I was drugged". we were outside in a parking lot and i giving yelled at her and said "why the fuck did you do this?" and she responded with "I KNOW HOW THIS LOOKS BUT I DIDNT FUCKING CHEAT ON YOU" before I even mentioned cheating. she kept prying and prying at me to believe her. then she started freaking out even more and called her mom to ask her if she's ever slept walked. then she called Verizon and the Apple Store to try and prove me wrong. I told her to fuck off and either admit to it later today or I'm breaking up with her and walked away. later today get a bunch off calls from her, ignore them, finally pick up. she says if the roles were switched she would never break up with me for this. she says she would never do anything like that. she says that this probably has to do with how "insecure" I've always been with her and basically flipping all of this on to me like its my fault. I told her to fuck off again and went home and went to sleep. just woke up so i thought it would be a good idea to post on here. a little more backstory to this week/this relationship. this week she had her period and mentioned how "fucking horney" she was but we haven't had sex because she's been working the night shift at her coffee shop, and I've been waking up early to the gym most mornings before work (told her that if she wants to see me she needs to not have the opposite schedule as mine". Friday morning I woke up, she offered to make me breakfast, and then was clinging to me like I child without saying anything. went to work and she texted me that she loved me "so so much" and asked if she could make me dinner. we've been together for two years, living together for 8 months. she honestly is a great girl but also has some problems with people due to a psychological abusive mother. she has a hard time saying no to people, she's very agreeable, she mimicks other people's personalitys. she gets "weird and quiet" sometimes and then when I ask her about it it turns into this big thing. we also have a really fucking good time together. ive never felt like I feel with her with anyone else (yeah yeah, ONEitis I know). I started reading the red pill a few months ago and just finished reading "the rational male". we have been having "problems" for a while, first with her getting "quiet and weird" and then with us just arguing about nothing every two days. what I'm thinking after reading the rational male and realizing what a pathetic beta I've been is that after all the times I "told her how I felt", after all the stupid shit I've admitted about myself to her. after all the self deprecating and the lack of an effort made to hold frame, be exciting and fulfilling to her, and problems with money and school that have taken me off the "secure financial future" list, she finally got fed up, let hypergamy take over, and fucked some confident bro from work who made a move on her. I don't know guys. maybe this is for the best. I have been realizing this shit for a while. realizing that trp is pretty accurate, that "talking about how you feel" to your girlfriend make you less attractive every time, that ONEitis and dependance on one person is crazy and unhealthy, and I thought that I could somehow turn this around and get some of the power back in our relationship but this right here seems to be the final fucking nail in the coffin. now I'm just not sure what to do. if I break up with her, I will always wonder if I was wrong and that her phone actually did "glitch", if I don't and stay with her, I will always question this one thing and have a lack of trust.
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