Is there a way to implement TRP into a relationship?

TunedtoPerfection · 2017-11-24T08:31:06+00:00

Your spouting a bunch of red pill catch phrases without having any idea what they truly mean. If you try to follow all these ideals all at once your going to turn your relationship into a science experiment and eventually it will fail, know that. I did this, and yes I learned a metric fuckton but I wouldn't suggest it as I'm basically starting all over because a lot of this experimentation requires you to cross social boundaries, boundaries people will never truly forgive you for. So when you break up, ALL the friends of this science experiment relationship will instantly side with her, as they will all remember those times you "took it too far." If you can deal with that, go for it bro and test ever last red pill idea you read on this relationship. Take it to where you think it's too far, then go 5 steps farther.

A more subtle and powerful way to make sure this relationship starts on the right foot so to speak is this:

Tomorrow night, take an hour before you go to sleep and determine what it is you want from this relationship. Be perfectly honest with yourself. The determine your boundaries for the relationship. Now the hard part.

Do Not Fucking Sway. Read up on soft nexting and other such "punishment/reward" tactics. Then use the above boundaries and wants to mold the relationship. Do not chase her when she wants/threatens to leave and no backing down or compromising on your boundaries and desires.

That is frame and where you need to start

GreenPiller · 2017-11-24T09:01:43+00:00

In my experience Going from beta to alpha is very hard because either you fuck it up by being to assholish confusing the fuck out of her, or she might not buy it and start shit testing you waiting for you to crumble. Start by texting other girls occasionally in order to build abundance mentality, cover your tracks of course, start lifting to become more atttactive, she'll notice and become insecure, this is what we call dread. Also read the sidebar and stop the compliment shit.

QueryMe · 2017-11-24T09:48:45+00:00

Firstly: One thing I took away from TRP is that you should do whatever the hell YOU want. So if YOU like giving compliments then just keep on doing that.

If and when this leads to behaviors on her behalf that you don‘t enjoy, that would be the time to reconsider.

I don‘t see how giving out compliments by itself would make you clingy. What does is if you give up what YOU want out of the relationship to accommodate her needs.

So don‘t forget what activities etc make you happy and never forget that your affection for her is not tied to her as a person but how often and enthusiastic she is willing to satisfy your needs.

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2017-11-24T08:04:56+00:00

The aim of being a good boyfriend is wrong regarding TRP. One adopts the principles to be a better human, with the romantic boost as a side-effect.

I don't plan to stop lifting when my plates invariably break, as I lift for myself, with the fact that others notice and react differently as a side effect.

Similarly regarding abundance mentality. The most apparent way I've implemented this is by choosing to be a contractor as opposed to being an employee. As with women employers are fickle, their needs change, they pivot in directions at the snap of a finger and I haven't figured out how to engineer myself from a political perspective to give myself survival ability. The solution? I "spin" multiple contracts to "spread my seed" in terms of sources of income. To wit, I earn over €100.000,00 but from 3-4 different startups here. A neighbour earns the same from one employer -- we enjoy the same standard of living, go to the same doctors, drive BMWs, enjoy a glass of wine around the corner nightly and so on so forth. If one startup should fail, there are plenty that will pick me up and pay me an ever-increasing hourly rate.

arnieschwarz · 2017-11-24T09:11:08+00:00

Look for the married red pill sub.

vandaalen · 2017-11-24T09:22:18+00:00

Nope. Absolutely not possible. Otherwise it would be in the sidebar of the mainsub.

nastynickdr · 2017-11-24T20:26:56+00:00

Read Married Man Sex Life Primer, its a must read for any guy wanting a successful LTR, despite the name.

new__vision · 2017-11-24T23:58:31+00:00

There are a wealth of excellent RP articles on LTRs. Read these:

How to have an EASY LTR, part 2 - Comfort and fun

LTR Game: Maintaining Frame

LTR Game Part 2: Building the Foundation

LTR Game Part 3: Unicorn Hunter Checklist

LTR Game Part 4: Positive Masculinity

LTR Game Part 5: Love and Power

LTR Game Part 6: Egalitarianism and Ownership

LTR Game Part 7: Permission and Privelege

LTR Game Part 8: Leadership and Support

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-11-24T11:46:30+00:00

You have very little understanding of the red pill. Its aim is not to become good boyfriend. this is a white-knights aim. Understanding the Red Pill's truths you become a better man who respects himself. By trying to be better for her you put focus on her and with this you set your relationship to fail. Red Pill repeats everyday one idea: Become best version of yourself. women are by-product.

Start with sidebar. From beginning.

FujitsuOffer · 2017-11-24T14:52:11+00:00

I’ve seen a couple of occasions where guys talk about now they implement red pill ideas into their relationship and the girl ends up breaking up with them. The only reason advice you need from the red pill is to be an independent man. Be strong, be a father figure not a son figure. Try to avoid showing weakness unless you can frame it as a source of strength. Beyond that just be a normal person and play it by ear.

RedPilledRoaster · 2017-11-24T15:15:05+00:00

The fuck do you think

Title	Is there a way to implement TRP into a relationship?
Author	jackie-boy-throwie
Upvotes	4
Comments	26
Date	November 24, 2017 7:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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