Letting LTR go out

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-01-07T01:31:22+00:00

LTR material chicks dont do girls nights out and party hard. Just say "my girlfriend doesnt go out and party like that. You're free to do what you want though." If she crosses the boundary, you dump her. Ideally, she shouldn't even be desiring to do this and she wouldn't want to risk the relationship by doing that.

KrissVectorEOC · 2020-01-07T01:01:56+00:00

Pretty sure you know the answer to your question. In regards to how to do that, well, it's up to you on what you're willing to stand for. Be confident in what you want.

bigmaddenguy · 2020-01-07T01:28:21+00:00

Letting her go out and drink is equivalent to letting her fuck other guys. If she's attractive enough that you'd date her, she's attractive enough to be swarmed with attention at any nighttime venue.

Source: even while with my LTR on NYE, she got hit on 7 times. And that's with me there.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-01-07T01:04:25+00:00

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Truedemocracy6 · 2020-01-07T01:37:51+00:00

If you don’t let her party then you’re being a hypocrite, anyone here who tells you otherwise is full of shit

Just instill dread, trust her, and be ready for the inevitable if she does cheat which has a decent likelihood

HurricaneHugues · 2020-01-07T07:47:43+00:00

Sounds like you're about to enter a LDR to me

Vynxe-Vainglory · 2020-01-07T08:25:15+00:00

Always keep two in the kitty.

Start getting your backup bitch warmed up.

2030isCloserThan2003 · 2020-01-07T01:05:59+00:00

If she goes out, it should be with her close friends that u know & trust. She clearly says that she doesn’t like drinking & wants to “fit in”, so if she’s a smart girl then she should know her limits.

Obviously there should be a balance, where sometimes u tag along to the parties as well, bc the people that she parties with should eventually get to know you too.

In the end it’s her loss if she over-drinks & doesn’t control herself & makes herself a fool. Accept the risks & end it if she cheats or doesn’t listen to your set boundaries.

Unfortunately, most relationships do end when people are in grad school but if you both trust each other & she doesn’t display any huge red flags overtime, just play it cool.

Also, she shouldn’t be craving to party everyday... bc then that’s a major red flag.

IceBear---69 · 2020-01-07T01:14:49+00:00

Past LTRs of mine only drink WITH me or a male family member and there's no way around that. You gotta find what set of rules you're comfortable enforcing & do it ruthlessly as needed.

I will say, if you're doing things right, she will likely follow your rules without question. You can't force them not to go out, but you can imply that it a,b,c behavior is not something your girlfriend would do (hinting that there is no more LTR if she does not comply)

vullnet123 · 2020-01-07T01:20:44+00:00

Have your boundaries. I personally wouldn't LTR a girl who goes out and drinks.

2020-01-07T11:17:59+00:00

Don't have an ltr in a first place

Title	Letting LTR go out
Author	orbitstabilizerthm
Upvotes	3
Comments	47
Date	January 7, 2020 12:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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