This is my first time posting here. I've been browsing for a few weeks now, and I've definitely been under the influence of the blue pill my entire life; I'm trying to change all that.

So I was in a LTR with a girl for 3 years. I put her on a pedestal, treated her with the upmost respect, and did everything for her; real blue pill stuff. Out of nowhere she decides to walk away without much of an explanation citing that she needed to "find happiness within herself." Basically we don't talk for a couple weeks, I see that she's going out with a bunch of guys, whatever. So she tries to talk to me again saying we should hang out and keep talking and me being a blue pill puss, I said yes. She then confesses to me that she spent the night with one of her coworkers but that they didn't have sex. Just "fooled around over the clothes." Obviously this stung a little, and I'm not an idiot I'm sure they probably had sex. As it stands, she's been coming over every weekend staying at my place and we continue to have sex. I'm trying really hard to take TRP, and handle this situation accordingly. The hardest part is overcoming how I used to view reality. It's like mourning a death. I had a very romanticized view of the world and now it's completely changed due to this whole situation. So how would TRP handle this issue?