Met a RP Guy...

Stonish · 2015-07-31T11:28:38+00:00

I don't have the answer for your question but what makes me wonder is - why as a guy would you tell a girl that you're RP? What does it even mean? Aren't actions more important than words?

Pedro_Navaja · 2015-07-31T11:32:39+00:00

Go to r/redpillwomen

NumbersOnTheBoard · 2015-07-31T13:26:26+00:00

This dude sounds like a tool off the bat, but I think I can Crack his mentality.

First, who goes around saying they are RP? This is not some badge of honor. It's a mindset.

Second, going around stating you are red pill means that he revealed his entire hand to you. Nothing he's going to do from here on out seems genuine. The whole push/pull, the withdrawing, it all seems so fake to me.

Wrapping it altogether, he might be, and by "might be" I mean he "is", probably nervous and genuinely likes you, but doesn't exactly know how to express that in a way that you will find attractive. And as such, he his doing what he learned here, but trying way too hard and showing too much neediness with his actions. This is why he's acting the way he is.

He will need to be honest with himself and be honest with you before this starts moving anywhere.

My advice is to do both of you a favor and next him. Find a guy who will be more genuine in his actions and words. This guy still needs his training wheels.

Merwebb · 2015-07-31T13:24:06+00:00

He told you some like "hey im RP"??? What a loser.

"Hey baby im rich"

"Hey baby i have a big dick"

"Hey baby [insert bullshit here]"

StuffaYouFace · 2015-07-31T12:48:19+00:00

First rule of RP is you don't talk about RP. This guy is faking it. Don't give him the validation that his "RP methods" are working. Tell him we told him to "head back to monk mode and hit the sidebar". He does not represent us as he has failed to actually swallow red pill. He is at the very least a PUA and that is all. There are actual alphas out there. Get yourself one and ditch this one.

secret_barber · 2015-07-31T13:29:06+00:00

It sounds like your schedules aren't syncing up. You should continue to express your interest in him, if you are interested ...let him know another time you are available.

Anyway, there is no way to tell if you two are a good LTR match, after a single date. Slow down the pressure on yourself. Focus on having fun.

EseJandro · 2015-07-31T13:42:26+00:00

You need to ditch that zero and get with this hero! /s. No but seriously he sounds like a tool.

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2015-07-31T14:14:52+00:00

Hah, I read this and think "what a douchebag" tbh. But I do the exact same thing.

RP men would probably treat you as a normal girl until you prove you are worth commitment. Remember, all women have the same short-term attraction triggers.

PemBayliss · 2015-07-31T17:58:19+00:00

dream:

I've read the post and comments. The advice to go to r/redpillwomen is a good one. No, they're not dysfunctional submissives. They have good advice for women, and you should follow whatever useful advice you can get there.

You say you don't want to be a plate; you want to be a wife. You say you're high SMV and N=1. You also say you want to know "what makes a fisherman keep a fish". For the purposes of this comment I'll take what you say at face value.

I'll give you a bit of the advice I think the RPWs would give you if you were posting there.

First, you owning a townhome and having your own job doesn't have anything to do with your attractiveness. Your attractiveness is almost completely contained in your looks, youth and fertility. A close second is a pleasant, feminine personality. Your being debt free is a plus; but that doesn't add to your attractiveness.

Second, this man you're talking about is running game on you. It's classic hot cold and push pull. I frankly agree he's probably a newbie, and is trying out his newfound skillz on you. But I wouldn't necessarily cut him loose. The question you have to ask yourself is whether you want this man, and whether he has what you want.

If he really is RP, he's probably not going to want to marry, and if he does, that's not going to be for a long time. So you have to consider that as well.

Most men will want to keep a woman who is high value. That means she hasn't slept around, she is physically attractive, she isn't fat, she has long hair, and she has domestic skills (cooking, cleaning, housekeeping).

As you've probably figured out, most men are going to press you for sex as soon as possible. Your job is to engage in a "dance" of sorts with an appropriate man - sexual access in exchange for commitment. You give him a little sexual access; he gives you some commitment. He gives you some investment/commitment; you give him some sexual access. And it is done in increasing increments until committed LTR/marriage.

You need to find a guy who you trust to lead you. RPW says captain/first officer. He will be the dominant partner in the relationship. If you are looking for an "egalitarian" relationship in which you are both equals, then neither asktrp nor redpillwomen will be of any use to you. Also, if you're looking for an egalitarian relationship (which don't exist), then forget about RP man here, forget you ever read anything here, forget everything I've said, and go find yourself a beta simp you can dominate. TRP seems firmly of the view that there is no such thing as "egalitarian" relationships between one man and one woman.

EDIT: If you really are what you say you are (25, "beautiful", want to get married and start a family), then you are high SMV, and you are prime wife material. But you do not have a lot of time here. You're already halfway through your 20s. Let's say tomorrow you meet a man you are sure wants to marry you and you want to marry him. Let's say you agree to marry after 3 months of dating, and then you actually get married after a 9 month engagement. You're now 26. You wait a year before kids. You're now 27. How many kids do you want? If you want two, you'll be at least 30 by the time you're done having them. if you want 4, you'll be at least 32, probably more like 34. You might think that's young. It's not. You need to get started now finding the man who is willing to invest in you long term. There aren't many who are able and even fewer who would be willing.

Second EDIT: The minute you think you're being "plated", cut him loose.

Good luck.

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RPthrowaway123 · 2015-07-31T13:34:27+00:00

No man in his right mind would say "I'm a red pill guy" or anything even remotely like that on a date. Nice try.

afroose · 2015-07-31T12:32:58+00:00

He told you that he is a fake alpha ? It doesn't mean anything he treats every girl the same way, he won't text you anymore it's your turn to show how interested you are .

midnightbean · 2015-07-31T14:33:17+00:00

I'm having trouble believing this post.

First off most people know from the moment of reading TRP that it is clearly offensive to almost the entire populace in some way. Even if it's just your grandmother who's looks have run out. What man in his right mind would want to tell a girl this unless to push her away?

Maybe you really freaked him out so he dropped "I'm a red pill guy" to get you to go away? I mean the fact that you joined a forum to ask us on advice on this guy shows you're possibly way to interested.

All things considered sincerely here if he has spent some time in TRP and does have his shit together, he's probably got more options than it's worth driving to another city for. And I wouldn't expect him to be thinking of you as a LTR.

It's a bit hard to give advice to you because you're focusing on a partner one at a time, which is what we try not to do. As a method for finding a LTR partner it's not a very good one because there is hardly ever any real investment. That's what I've found. I've had more sex this year than ever and i'm very worried of getting some kind of disease, worried about my ability to bond, and I really feel like being single for ever because the thought of living with someone exclusively scares the shit out of me. People with options value freedom, or at least I value it highly.

Keep doing what you're doing. If you like this guy he's probably doing something right. It may drive you nuts but that's why you're interested. Just ride the pain from the high, and never a better time to listen to those love songs.

MentORPHEUS · 2015-07-31T15:09:02+00:00

He postponed twice; sounds like he's got too many plates spinning and this indicates your position on his ~~totem~~ pole.

Sounds like you can do much better than him, and he's duffed his chance with you. YOU should be giving HIM the "K" treatment at this point.

I second the advice to do some reading at RedPillWomen. Learn more from the canon of healthy Captain/First Mate dynamic.

FrameWalker · 2015-07-31T15:48:26+00:00

You should tell him you're ready to fuck and will work hard to be his main plate

Title	Met a RP Guy...
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Date	July 31, 2015 11:24 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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