There was a comment here in a thread this week I forgot about. It was along the lines of how to engage girls in first encounters. It stressed that you never ask a girl questions, you let her ask questions, state who you are/storytell your life and then flip that topic back to her. For some reason this really just stuck in my mind as I meet a new girl every night but realized I wasn't finding the right vibe.

Anyway I tried it tonight on a married 24 year old. It was fun and a challenge to keep a good conversation but purposefully avoiding questions. I got a lot of IOIs and realized I was coming off as trying too hard by asking a lot of questions in the last week. This is a shot in the dark but if someone knows where that idea came from and can point me in the direction of what to read that might help my game. (Traveling east europe)

Edit: Remembering more now... the comment also mentioned that when she gives information about herself you respond with "oh you are THAT kind of girl" and then characterize her in some way that puts her a bit on the defense, which again, worked so well.