Normal to skip anger phase?

daffy_duck233 · 2018-04-27T02:15:40+00:00

there's no use in getting upset about something not under your control

speed3_freak · 2018-04-27T03:32:20+00:00

Absolutely. There are a lot of people that conduct themselves out of logic and rarely get overly emotional in situations. You've probably wondered if your a sociopath at points because you don't see the point in being emotional, except sometimes you feel strong emotions (like when a person you love dies).

This is the same way with me. I'm much happier if I understand the reasoning behind something despite what the outcome is. If it makes logical sense, it makes sense to me and there isn't any reason to be mad about it. Learn, appreciate the positive aspects of women (there are a ton), and focus on happiness.

It's kind of like not worrying about flying once you understand how an airplane works. I never went through any kind of anger, because I was like, huh, that makes sense. Granted I wasn't TRP, I was old school Roissy chateau heartiste, but everything I read made logical sense. It was like, 'Oh, that's where I fucked up.'

TehJimmyy · 2018-04-26T21:39:04+00:00

There's no skipping.My advice is to stop reading that much and start applying.Otherwise you will end up overanalyzing and being in the anger phase longer.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2018-04-26T23:36:00+00:00

The discovery of TRP didn't cause an anger phase for me either. Going out in the world and experiencing all facets of it, getting into a relationship and it ending led to the anger phase for me. TRP helped me get laid many times before this happened. You may very well never have one but don't think it only comes at the beginning.

redd_reality · 2018-04-27T01:54:14+00:00

You didn't skip it. My anger phase didn't happen until three years after I took trp.

I got angry I reached a certain stage in life and realized that the reason I wasn't getting what I wanted, was because I wasn't good enough. Then all of the anger came out of me. Fucking rage for many months. Pissed off all the time. Family and friends were contemptuous obstacles in my way.

You're sitting there from the analytical vantage point. Everything makes sense; of course it does. But you haven't actually lived it yet. You haven't stared at the nihilistic nature of your own existence and truly realized that the one thing you thought was always going to be there - mommy love from a woman, isn't ever going to be there, and that it was always a lie.

That is the moment when you'll feel the anger. You can't skip it and you won't skip it. But when it comes, use it to motivate you through your goals. Your goals are what is going to save your soul and restore your humanity and more pragmatically, your neuro chemicals.

_Ulan_ · 2018-04-27T13:20:00+00:00

I guess you get angry by thinking about those times you were betrayed/laughed at that you could have avoided. Or when your hope for a romance disappears. But If you had none of those then you're good to go

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-04-27T13:43:21+00:00

My anger phase was more of an "aha" phase, because everything started to make sense.

imaginethegainz · 2018-04-27T15:29:22+00:00

Exact same thing happened to me. I didn't have an anger phase and I felt a sense of "relief" because I finally knew the answers

Mr_Badass · 2018-04-26T22:01:28+00:00

You probably have a small ego, not approaching enough women, or are not lifting heavy at the gym. You should see other men your age as competition. Anger should naturally come when you realize that other men are getting laid and your're not.

Title	Normal to skip anger phase?
Author	I_WRESTLE_BEARS
Upvotes	22
Comments	18
Date	April 26, 2018 9:25 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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