Old plate reached out

FightForYourWay · 2020-05-27T15:42:22+00:00

I would stop acting like an asshole and actually respect myself.

either she comes over alone or you can put on a dress and go gossip and drink margaritas at the bar with her and her friend!

Domebeers · 2020-05-27T18:43:58+00:00

I would text back 'Naw, but if you want to come over after feel free'

Rexile · 2020-05-27T15:37:52+00:00

I wouldn't go. She's already there with her bestie, what's her bestie gonna do? Obviously be a third wheel. She's gonna probably babysit her and you won't get a fuck or anything. At the end of the night she will walk away with her bestie and you're gonna stand dumbfounded there like an loser. I can tell plate wants you there just for attention.

Or you can make 200 iq move and focus on her bestie and possible make her your new plate.

It's not worth it though. Bestie knows your old plate has a boyfriend, she's here for gatekeeping, if she wouldn't be there then maybe you could bang her but otherwise her friend is keep her tame so she won't fuck you (or somebody else).

Not worth it unless you wanna invest your time to hear girls rambling about stuff.

mrsmiley831 · 2020-05-27T17:22:14+00:00

"Another time, perhaps."

Her best friend is going to cock block you. Not worth the time and effort.

IXseed · 2020-05-27T19:33:35+00:00

she'll be having drinks with her bestie if I wanna join

If she was trying to fuck you, why would she invite you out to something where you two aren't gonna be alone?

Greaterbird · 2020-05-27T21:30:12+00:00

Fucking someone with an actual real live boyfriend is asking for trouble. Why tempt fate just for pussy?

Metalgear222 · 2020-05-27T17:26:07+00:00

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2020-05-27T20:04:56+00:00

Depends what you want. If you want fun , go for a drink or two. Have fun. Be the best version of yourself. Be relaxed and cool. Leave when they still want you there. If it’s on they’ll show signs. If it’s not you’ll also see the signs. If you don’t want to waste your time then tell her to meet you after her drinks for more drinks at yours.

Bungeeeeee · 2020-05-27T21:56:12+00:00

if an ex-plate reaches to you, and you have zero investment and have no problem with her staying ex-plate unless she makes up good for it, as it should be, you should definitely have all the power. so you want to use that power to have drinks with her and her bestie??? zero emotional investing and short texting. invite her over. either she's in or out. done, easy.

alphakari · 2020-05-28T03:40:42+00:00

I wouldn't go to that unless I was tryna get in on her social circle to network more. If she isn't your kind of people (IE: You wouldn't talk to her cept to fuck) then I wouldn't go to that shit.

I'd just decline and suggest an alternative. The hardass response some of these guys are putting out to this is incel as fuck tho. Be chill. If ya'll can't come to an agreement, no need to be a baby about it. Just say ya'll will figure something out another day.

The fact some of these guys are suggesting basically burning a bridge cause she invited you to hang with her and her best friend is the most pathetic shit I've ever heard.

SavorThePill · 2020-05-27T17:26:20+00:00

Bring a girl with you. That'll be fun.

Otherwise, that's an easy no-go: alcohol, best friend with her, and boyfriend? That's three strikes and you're out, bud.

MonsterZed3 · 2020-05-27T18:29:09+00:00

Go if you want to go. Don’t go if you don’t want to go.

beingamannotadayjob · 2020-05-27T16:02:46+00:00

Go for the experience.

MarylandLion · 2020-05-27T18:55:29+00:00

Threesome

2020-05-27T22:19:31+00:00

I don't understand why everyone is against the idea. What is the worst that can happen? You having a good time, but not getting sex? Oh no!...

I had that exact situation. Her bestie was infact annoying over the whole evening. Not in a sense of being obnoxious, but obviously cockblocking me.

Though, later at the girls place as soon as her friend left to the bathroom for a few minutes I grabbed her and heavily made out with her. At the end I slept with both of them in the same bed, playing with the pussy of said girl. I told her "I want you, now"

She actually suggested us both to go to the bathroom, most likely so her friend wouldn't actually see us fucking. Although her friend 100% knew.

It was insane. She basically ignores me now, I was just the fling in another city. AWALT.

Title	Old plate reached out
Author	Portobello36
Upvotes	14
Comments	26
Date	May 27, 2020 3:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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