Brief background about me:

I'm 23 years old. Work as an RN in a major metropolitan city. Bring home around 45K a year. Single. No kids. No pets. Completely independent. All family live in other states.

I've been a red pill lurker for a few weeks now. I won't say it's necessarily changed my outlook on women, but more so confirmed what I've subconsciously felt in my adult life. I'm a "natural" with women. Attractive, good with words, in shape. I wouldn't call myself narcissistic, but I recognize my value, as well as value myself a great deal. I've been in 1 LTR that lasted > 1 year, and several others in the 2-6 month range. I've had somewhere around 15-17 partners.

My problem is I'm terribly self-conscious about my penis size. It's the one physical aspect of myself that I haven't been able to come to terms with. I'm 5 inches and not very "girthy". I don't feel like I'm good in bed, which affects my confidence in the bedroom.

My question is, for those of you that have experienced the same/similar issue, what happened to make you come to terms with it? I appreciate any input, thanks in advance.