My stats 24 in 6 days 6’0 195 lbs roughly 16% BF dk my maxes rn I’m heavy into bodybuilding “considering competing soon”. Lift 5x week full body split, run 5k atleast weekly, Have a mission I’m working on, investing money, reading a lot, not much of a social life tbh but not lonely, optimistic for my future. Anyways..

This girls been around since I was going through multiple women and living a wild fucked up all the time social life, up until past few months where she’s the only one I’ve been with & ive dedicated my life to growth as a man, she’s definitely been with other guys in the past 2 years and we’ve drifted away from each other s couple times as I wouldn’t date her and she’d find a little pretty boy to lockdown for a month or 2...but her words “they just weren’t like you” I’m sure she’s had a few flings in the last couple years but last few months she claims to have her focus solely on me. Cool.

She’s cute, maybe a 7 in my “scale” that’s ok she’s not fat by any means also in the army and likes being fit and doing things to look better, she’s supposedly has goals and things that are similar to mine.

Couple things I’ve noticed recently, she turned her Snapchat map on, deleted the pics she thought I’d think were “slutty” from social media “I honestly didn’t think they were that bad compared to what I have seen”. She’s cooked for me, almost annoys me with wanting to do things for me, I’ve had car trouble a few times and she wanted to be there for me “she has once”, I can take 5 hours to respond to a text and she’ll text back fast, there’s only been one time she didn’t come over when I asked her to “she had a bf at the time” I’d mark that as a good sign tho. Has she cheated on someone with me? I truly have no idea.. lol. But her getting w/ me would be an improvement for all aspects of her life I can tell ya that.

She seems to have devotion towards getting w/ me, by god 2+ years and I’ve only given her like 25 compliments, never bought her anything, never done shit for her except make her cum and hangout with her. But I’ve been a little mean to her to test her devotion And I’d just randomly not talk to her for a week at a time and come back like nothing happened and tell her to come over and she’d come no hesitation, she’s done anything I want sexually so far that seems good, definitely attracted to her.

She’s got a good sense of humor so I can go s little heavy on the teasing and she takes it well, I’ve also slipped up and had some “weak days” in front of her and she was affectionate & a bit uplifting rather than shit testy about it. A few weeks ago she called at 6 am and said I have to talk to you, I said ok come over.

She comes over & sits on my lap and pours her feelings out to me about wanting to be w/ me & all this things about how she never thought love was real but she’s sure she’s in love with me, she says it just hurts because I know you don’t feel that way back.. I didn’t say a word the whole time, like a single word...she started balling her eyes out but it wasn’t like a manipulative crocodile tears she was trying to hold it back the whole time & I could tell it took her a lot of courage to come and say those things..she reminded me of what you see a boy asking s girl to prom on a Disney movie...it was adorable tbh 😂 so I didn’t say anything just smiled and she said I know that was a lot I just had to tell you....

What stood out to me about her love confession was how she kept saying this “love how you always tell the truth, even if it hurts my feelings you always tell me the truth you’re an asshole and I love it everyone else says all these sweet things but not you you’ll say your hair looks like shit or you need to get it together or stop doing that, i love the person you are and how you’re always you and I understand you’ll have offdays but I trust you’ll come back from them and I trust you and feel secure around you & ive never met anyone like that except for you”

She also asked if she ever had any chance w/ me at all and to just tell her the truth because she’s going crazy, and she said I’ll still fuck you whenever you want me to and do things w you but I need to know if I’m wasting my time. I told her I was open to getting to know her on a closer level and going out together more other than that I’m doing me in life and I’m not changing for anyone. Anyways.

Which all that’s great and nice to hear but my biggest red pill in life Is talk is cheap if the actions don’t back it up. Some may say I have trust issues but I call it “healthy skepticism” she’s shown very little to no red flags to me, but I don’t know her as well as I need to.

What kinds of questions do I ask to really vet her, or tests do I put her through ? I just want to see if the person she’s conveying toward me is who she is because anyone can recite a poems on stage if they practice it enough. How do I find out about her secrets and what not? I mean I have to find something off about her, the biggest problem I have is she’s 20 years old and she’s really stupid sometimes like no common sense dumb and it frustrates me “I remind myself that women are children” lol

None of this means I’m going to LTR her, it’ll take a lot for me to ever LTR again but she’s made it this far I want to know more about her how do I even do that? What do I ask and how do I ask it?