Plates want commitment

entrep4 · 2019-06-06T11:45:56+00:00

That's just how it is. Women are the gatekeepers to sex, and men are the gatekeepers to relationships.

Atheist_Utopia · 2019-06-06T12:28:37+00:00

further to what /u/entrep4 said , regardless of what the modern world tries to tell women; I don't think the majority of capable of having continual sex without developing feelings. Even biologically, it's likely that eventually the majority will want to lock down and start being maternal.

/u/joeboard is right, letting them stay the night is sending a message that FB->LTR.

Here's a question, do they leave random shit at your house like bobby pins? The Leave Behind is something you should keep an eye out for. Women will often claim in some female centric subs and 'ask wahmans' subs that they don't do this deliberately but in my experience this is not the case; and further, women have admitted they do it.

They will leave shit in places you won't generally look; but other women will find. Passenger seat of car, window sill of your bedroom, in the couch on the other side to where you sit etc.

That might be something to check for and correlate to them dropping the LTR convo

Joeboard · 2019-06-06T12:10:18+00:00

Letting a plate spend the night is allowing them to think you are more interested then you really are. Only let potential ltrs sleep over. Especially if sleeping together means cuddling.

Whisper · 2019-06-06T17:09:29+00:00

Plates want commitment.

Orbiters want sex.

It's good to want things. But you don't get shit unless you earn it.

kick6 · 2019-06-06T14:01:34+00:00

They're getting good dick once a week, and enjoy your company. Of COURSE they want the D more often, and not to have to share.

MattyAnon · 2019-06-06T17:00:45+00:00

All of them seem to want commitment at some point a

See sidebar, "how to handle the talk".

since I do not want to string them along and eventually hurt them a lot I just next them and continue gaming other girls.

Stop taking responsibility for her happiness.... she's not being completely honest with you anyway... see it more as a shit test, and keep on banging.

Why do they all want commitment?

They want to GET commitment, not GIVE commitment. It's not like she's planning on never getting offers again.

Commitment = resources.

Enjoy girls as long as you can, but figure eventually they'll get too demanding.

It's instinctive with them, but commitment is a terrible idea for you.

ComplexProjection · 2019-06-06T20:39:18+00:00

I don’t get why people are so afraid of commitment. If my plate want to commit to me, that’s great and I’ll welcome her with great pleasure in my harem.

4thAndLong · 2019-06-06T19:51:14+00:00

Plates break man. It happens. If you don't want an LTR is just better to let them go. I do agree that letting them spend the night gives mixed signals. Just tell them you have to get up early or whatever and ask them to leave. Don't let them keep things at your place either.

RX0II · 2019-06-06T12:23:24+00:00

Tell them you're into consensual non-monogamy and bring them to the sex club. Make them your wingmen.

0io- · 2019-06-06T13:44:00+00:00

If I were you, I would avoid women age 26-35 completely. That's the age where they have to find someone fast if they want to have children, and you'll be under intense pressure to get married or get them pregnant or make a commitment.

Title	Plates want commitment
Author	Throwaway5hfy88k99
Upvotes	12
Comments	24
Date	June 6, 2019 11:42 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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