Should i just buy a hooker?

Liu_Wang · 2018-01-15T07:29:44+00:00

idk but get the hooker anyway

DarkWhale___ · 2018-01-15T07:47:44+00:00

most of these girls today are basically hookers. no shame man do it

ShotgunTRP · 2018-01-15T11:18:44+00:00

If I was cash stacked I would only fuck the finest escorts

AlmightyFiNeSseN · 2018-01-15T07:33:17+00:00

Backpage my friend

ANeedToAskSee · 2018-01-15T13:29:49+00:00

Realize that once you've completed the task, you will still be the same. It won't change who you are, only you can change that.

my_sfw_alias · 2018-01-15T12:58:20+00:00

That would cost way too much. Start with renting one for like a half-hour.

jay_jay_man · 2018-01-15T13:55:43+00:00

This is one man's take one what Hookers did for him when asked how prostitues changed him

Not much. I guess it did change my outlook towards women in a good way. I came to have a more balanced view of them and treat them more as simply people. It also got me to having the sex and social lives I wanted instead of gazing from the sidelines and wishing.

It created an abundance mentality; not more crushing for ever on unattainable girls just because they said something to me or whatever.

Demystified sex; sex went from being a near magical thing that happened only when the planets aligned and a woman bestowed upon me access to her heavenly, mystical vagina, into being a a regular form of recreation and emotional release.

Brought pussy down to earth; no more putting girls on pedestals, regardless of how hot they were or how much I wanted to bang them.

Taught me to not waste time getting played by girls who would never bang me but were more than happy to flirt and manipulate to get things out of people.

Got me to stop giving free pussy passes; the only time I give a pussy pass now is for... periods, pregnancy, and parenting. If you're not in any of those, no pussy pass, no matter how much you bat your eyelashes and call me handsome after spending the entire time up until now ignoring my existence.

Made me okay with having fremale friends, because since I wasn't floundering for poon, I could just enjoy their company without trying to think of some way to cash in for cunt.

Taught me that my happiness was far more under my control than previously thought; if something makes you happy, like having sex, find a way to do it and to hell with what people think; they're not you and don't matter.

Made me better in bed by giving me far more practice.

Raised my sexual expectations of women -- flat, bored starfishing coeds and self-professed sluts who couldn't ride a dick even with an instructions manual would no longer sufficed; I made a point of seeking out better fun time partners, and I've been far happier for it, plus I've also taught plenty of girls things I originally discovered with providers.

Opened my eyes to how hypocrisy, biases, and double standards really work. Why is it illegal to trade something for money that you can give away for free? In the past, it was for moral and health concerns, given STD's and need for legitimacy of children. Then it was about protecting families; READ: convincing insecure wives that their men couldn't possibly get their hands on a whore if it ws illegal, and now it's all about protecting women; READ: protecting the feminist pussy cartel and misandrist hate machine by stigmatizing and prohibiting male sexual and behavioral expression that doesn't in some way serve feminist agendas and goals. The reason that sex work is so often illegal throughout eras and areas is because it throws a wrench into the social designs of powerful, popular, and favored groups wherever it goes.

Taught me to have some self-respect. It started out sexually -- no need to debase myself for some girl if I can just get a provider if she doesn't work out. This initial liberation made me a stronger and more confident person who would state opinions, defend and debate them, and not feel threatened or pressured if people didn't like what they heard. This grew into me realizing that I had power and agency as a person. This grew to me demanding and striving for more in what I did and the relationships with people in my life. This came to me realizing I am more or less master of my own destiny within reason. In short, thanks to providers, I am not some dreg on r/incels.

I discovered just how how much of herd animals we are. Opinion comes from person A. Hey, that sounds about right, so that'll be my opinion, too! And that's how societal attitudes form. Society would tell you only a loser pays for sex. The truth is we all pay, one way or another. Could be a few hundred dollars for a limited time rendezvous, or it could be becoming the breadwinner for a household. Either way, that pussy was not free. Society would tell you sex workers are stupid, drugged, abused, trafficked, dirty, and all other sorts of things. The truth is I consider some of the providers I've met to be some of the most interesting and intelligent women I know and had a lot of their shit together. A 22 year old college grad girl starts working. By the time she's 30, she's still in mountains of debt and still in the entry level trenches getting the 5-7 years to get the job to get the 5-7 years to get the good job. Another 22 year old college girl becomes an escort. By age 30, she's been running her own business, paid off her student debts, figured out much of who she is and what she wants, and is running her own game instead of being a rat in someone else's, plus also likely making more money more efficiently than corporate girl.

Andgelyo · 2018-01-15T12:51:27+00:00

“Why buy something when you can get it for free?” . I’ve never smashed a hooker and I hope to god I never will. Develop your body, style, and raise your status and everything else will follow. You can at least lower your standards and fuck fat chicks for now. Then when you rank higher, start fucking better chicks.

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-15T18:59:09+00:00

Probably. I took a 28 y/o virgin to a strip club once. Wasn’t long and he was slaying strange right and left. Once he got to touch and feel a real life naked woman he realized what he was missing by jacking it to porn.

empatheticapathetic · 2018-01-15T08:42:27+00:00

I'm going to do it again soon. Like you said, to kick start my confidence and libido.

Drethetruth · 2018-01-15T09:41:31+00:00

Ive been in your situation before my friend.. 2 years went by and had no sex after i moved out of the U.S. All i can tell you is that sometimes you just gotta do it to feel like it instead of doing it when you feel like it. I got out of my dry spell and have been continuously getting pussy since.

mgtownigga · 2018-01-15T11:44:44+00:00

if you have the cash, why not? Just make sure to go through the proper channels. With that said, I've gone as long if not longer and the no. 1 thing you need to do is not give a fuck. having sex isnt' rocket science and once you're back into it you'll be fine. If a girl's into you, she'es not gonna judge you super harshly the first time, and chances are youll both be drunk anyways

whizkidmill · 2018-01-15T13:16:14+00:00

Instead of just letting that fear get the best of you, don't you think you should fave it head on? After you've dealt with the ho how is it going to help you in the future?

ChadThundersmash · 2018-01-17T23:08:00+00:00

NO. Rent one...

SirKolbath · 2018-01-15T09:18:14+00:00

Hookers are rarely as entertaining or as attractive as one might think. I think you'd do better to go monk mode and work on yourself with no pressure to game girls.

bbm72 · 2018-01-15T12:30:55+00:00

You rent them. The best part is that they leave when the act is done.

Montrealais69 · 2018-01-15T16:05:08+00:00

You don't "buy" hookers to fuck you anymore than you "buy" a barber to cut your hair or you "buy" a trainer to show you how to lift. You hire hookers to perform a service.

Title	Should i just buy a hooker?
Author	themangu6
Upvotes	6
Comments	41
Date	January 15, 2018 7:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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