I just recently moved to Toronto and immediately when I got here I felt some sort of gender war. I am originally from a very small rural town, a place where women are married around 19, 20, 21 and are raising families. I've traveled quite extensively and here in Toronto, the culture shock seemed to be massive. Women here want to party throughout their 20s and find a beta to latch onto right before they hit the wall.

About a week after I moved here I went out for drinks with a girl I met at a bar. She seemed fine at first, but very quickly got into a discussion about what a man should be and act like. She then pulled out a list of traits (on her phone) and asked me to read it and what I thought about it. She also told me she will 'coach me into being a man'. At this point as a farm boy I was utterly confused.

Another time while at a bar, a girl was dancing near me and being rude by elbowing me in the side and trying aggressively to push me outta the way. All of a sudden she throws her entire drink on me and I am soaking wet in alcohol! The bouncer sees this and escorts her to the exit. I tell my friend I want to make sure this girl gets kicked out and follow the bouncer out shortly after. I see the main security guard talking with this girl and her friend and when I come out the security guard asks me confrontationally 'why did you elbow this girl in the head?". He is listening intently to the drunk girl and her friend and they both claim I've had too much to drink (I don't drink). Before I have a chance to explain anything, or even speak, the security guard kicks me out and tells me to stay out while letting the girls back in. I am now in the cold soaking wet in alcohol.

More recently I met another girl and hung out with her. She also said she would make me 'an intelligent being' of a man. At this point I realize the girl cannot stay on one subject or thought for more than 10 seconds and is constantly scrolling through her phone. At my place she basically trashes the my apartment by wiping lipstick on my new towels, unraveling toilet paper and even stole my shoe.

On a date I met up with a girl for drinks which she was 20 minutes late for. When she told me she lived literally just at the end of the block I asked her why she was 20 minutes late as I was sitting there by myself waiting. She had no explanation and it was obviously intentional. She didn't see this as a big deal.

A girl I met at the bar and ran near flawless game on, I follow up with on a date. After about two pints this girl was unbearably annoying and attempted to command me as some sort of puppet. At one point she told me to just 'stand up'. I gave her an absurd look and ignored her. I ended up having a better conversation with the random guy next to me. Later that night I dropped her off at a nearby club because I couldn't handle her anymore. Minutes later I check my phone and there are 2 texts, one voicemail and 16 missed calls from this girl. I try to call her back but she doesn't pick up ............ She eventually tells me shes doesn't know where she is and I tell her to come back to my place. I have sex with her. The way this girl fucked was disgusting, like you could tell she had been riding different cocks and watching lots of porn. At the end she took off the condom and plopped in on my chest like I was a worthless piece of meat.

Was standing in line to go to another bar when a group of girls just flat out cuts right infront of me. The bouncer then says that 'my shoes are not appropriate' for the venue. My shoes are nice shoes and the best ones I have.

Just the other night I went out for a jog around 9:00 PM. As soon as I stepped out my door two girls infront of me on the sidewalk turned around and glared at me as if I was about to rape them. They then scurried across to the other side of the street.

I consider myself quite red pill. I am no beta and I would say I am quite alpha. I am in very good physical condition, young and intelligent as I have double degrees and have published many articles and am trying to build a business. I am however, completely alone in this city and in a desperate situation financially.

These issues with the way women behave wouldn't bother me much but it is compounded by how I cannot find alpha or red pill men. Its as if the men in this city reinforce the behavior of the women who are completely out of line. All the guy friends I know here (about 2) are beta and politically correct as hell. I can't even have an interesting conversation with them. The way they put pussy on a pedestal makes me sick. I cannot take them seriously. I have no true male friends to talk with about these issues. I work out alot as well, but the men who go to my gym seem to be 90% gay. I live in a very gay dominant area of the city. I never used to dislike gay people before I moved to this city.

I don't mean to rant here on /r/asktrp, but I simply cannot take it anymore. I lash out at people in public who do the slightest things wrong. I have alot of negative mental energy and the way people behave in this city is driving me to some very dark places. I do not want to bottle this up anymore.

Writing these things out and reading them out for myself is one of the things which helps me view these issues objectively. After reading this, I cannot recount a single positive date I've had with a girl in this city. The only really good time I've had with a girl was one I met up with who was in town from Ottawa for the weekend. Her friend from Toronto completely ignored me.

People of /r/asktrp, what perspectives and experience can you offer? I have been asking for guidance for some time now. No such thing has come and I am at the end of my rope.