So I'm 90% sure I want a vasectomy, I have no paternal instinct and I think children are not only annoying but dream and resource sucking machines (no offense to be those who have kids).
The only thing stopping me from going for it is that'll it'll lower my chances to find a long term partner. I know there's some women are out there who don't want kids and the child free movement is growing slowly.
I'm pretty sure this'll limit my options for ltr's as most women want a natural progression in a relationship even if I don't marry them, settling down and having kids is a logical step in commitment.
Should I pull the trigger? After learning about the redpill I'm aware how hard I have to vet to find a good women if at all in this day and age and right now I just want to fuck a lot, grow a business, grow an amazing social circle and pursue my hobbies, interests and travel. Family life is a distance thought that I feel would only slow me down. Finding a life partner will be difficult enough without disqualifying myself from a women because I've got the snip and can't build a traditional family life with them.
Part of me says fuck that, go ahead with what I want even if it's harder to find someone, the other part is kind of afraid.
Experiences, thoughts, advice, much appreciated.
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