What are you looking at?

ohsweetword · 2014-07-08T17:09:34+00:00

Look. Ask her, "Don't you think she has an amazing ass honey?"

This not only forces her to face the fact that she may not, but installs the fear that you may leave her if she doesn't work on her short comings.

mysterioussydney · 2014-07-09T01:57:11+00:00

"enjoying the view"

LukeMooney · 2014-07-09T15:21:55+00:00

"That birds arse"

"You know what I'm looking at"

"Shut up"

(ignore)

"What?" - pretend you didn't hear the question.

"Shhh, I'm trying to concentrate"

Whatever you do, DO NOT act like you did something wrong, passing this shit test is an opportunity to remind her that you're a sexual being, which is a good thing.

[deleted] · 2014-07-08T19:00:21+00:00

"The things i've sacrificed for you" followed by one of 2 things :

If you want to get her wet : "and it seems i've made the right choice" while measuring her up/slapping her ass playfully (high risk)

If you want to maintain your frame : measure her up indifferently followed by " sigh.. oh well" and carry on like nothing happened

At least it works for me..

frequentlywrong · 2014-07-08T17:25:13+00:00

"A hot chick" or something to that degree. Do not apologize or tolerate her trying to shame you.

Yesterday I said I was looking at something but not the girls ass.

Terrible move. What you did was submit to her will. Are you doing this to avoid an argument? If you're trying to get her to like you less that is a perfect way of doing it. Women feed off emotions, even negative ones and you denied her the pleasure.

A woman who is angry at you is not a bad thing if you don't give a shit about her anger and remain unphased by it. Women need to feel wonder, surprise, lust, anger, etc. They NEED it. Alphas cause a world of emotions because they do not give a shit. They do whatever the fuck they want and the woman follows, addicted to the emotions he is causing by his carelessness towards her. Betas try to manipulate them into being happy. They supplicate, apologize and avoid. This repulses women. They want a man to lead them not a boy that follows their lead.

Manuel_S · 2014-07-08T20:53:04+00:00

I've answered before: about 1 month after I'm dead and buried, maybe I can avoid looking at something like that, but maybe not. Its in the genes.

Said funny, matter-of-factly. Going on the "men are men" pass. Not nearly as good as the pussy pass, but you can get some slides.

mudra311 · 2014-07-08T16:18:58+00:00

"The ass you used to have." or "The ass you should have."

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-07-08T15:07:16+00:00

agree and amplify I assume is the recommended course of action. Problem is, I am too dumb to think of a good A&A tatic in this scenario.

robesta · 2014-07-08T15:48:55+00:00

Don't take her shit tests seriously. Whether you agree and amplify or do something else, just don't buy into her frame.

kingofpoplives · 2014-07-08T16:20:03+00:00

What is the desired reaction from your wife?

There are many possible responses to that question but it all depends on the desired outcome and other elements of the situation.

laere · 2014-07-08T17:16:40+00:00

Dude dont let your wife shame you for looking at hotter women.

Title	What are you looking at?
Author	Johnny10toes
Upvotes	10
Comments	18
Date	July 8, 2014 3:03 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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