What do I do in university?

trp369 · 2019-09-04T20:32:24+00:00

Bro search university on this sub and the main one there’s a bunch of posts you can follow.

My advice in order: 1. Join a social team sport like rugby - biggest factor in you not being a bitch through uni, you’ll meet redpill guys and trust me girls in the social groups like cheerleaders are almost exclusive to guys in rugby.

Lift like your life depends on it. From now on you’re the guy who’s always lifting and loves it. Again this has such high benefits that honestly you simply can’t experience a high value male life without.
Go to every single class. Every single one. Even if the lecturer only reads of the slides or you will fall asleep through it or you’re hungover. You get no opportunities being sat in your room like a dickhead. Be outside as much as possible and simply having classes with other people will make you friends and girls to plate.

VigilantSmartbomb · 2019-09-04T20:59:22+00:00

Lol I just go up and talk to any and everybody! Flirt with everybody, be the voice in the room, people will notice! And it’ll make it easier to approach others, and stop hacking off so your confidence goes up! Uhhh, but yeah just walk up to people. Most people are starving for social attention so any reaction to them and they’ll open up if they’re not actively trying to close down lol. As for the girls, it depends, if they’re just studying yeah go for it! If they’re a part of some group, you might have some white knights to get through first, which means you need to go to the gym so they don’t fuck with you, and that’s also another place to meet chicks. Basically, just throw yourself into the fire lol

Oh and fuck one of your teachers if you can, you’re only in this moment once 😂😂 missed so many 😭

grandorder123 · 2019-09-04T20:18:25+00:00

I had basically no friends my first few years of college. This year I said fuck it and rushed a few frats. I went in pretty drunk with no expectations and just tried to have fun. I came out with a bunch of new friends and an easy way to meet girls.

2stoned0jaguar9tre · 2019-09-04T20:24:04+00:00

Be social, make friends, make connections for the future, do not Kino on campus, explore hobbies you enjoy, start figuring out where you want to be in 10 years and the things that will make it happen. Use school resources cuz youre paying for it. Go to those oncampus social evebts to your benefit, not detriment.

Get good grades, behave on campus, graduate and get a good paying job, then you can really focus on TRP, once the money side is taken care of.

fartt123 · 2019-09-04T20:40:55+00:00

1) Be inline with your intentions. 2) set your expectations accordingly. and you will always be happy, then,

As Markus Arelius said when you cut a branch from adjacent branch. It is disconnected from the whole. Talk to everyone next to you. whether they are not that attractive or nerdy or not that good to talk to. Don't stop talking to the person because they are boring, nerdy, or talk on same subject over and over. give anyone you are talking to full attention sometimes it won't be possible and that's alright.. Just get in habit of conversing. This will teach you outcome independence and you will learn to converse.

This is where 1) comes in. Always remember why are you doing what you are doing, then 2) set your expectations accordingly. While doing this. some will not want to talk to you and that's expected. Some will think you are not cool and that is ok. You will find some boring. You will find some interesting. Then invite people to do shit. You will think some are too douchey, some will look too nerdy, some will be trashy, ghetto, too hot for you, higher league than you. Just invite everyone and you will be surprised at who shows up. Point is to not to think too highly of anyone and not to think too highly of yourself. Don't try to only talk to people who you want something out of. Sex, cool, status, whatever and it is why it's important talk to everyone.

Jesusfeminist · 2019-09-04T19:34:41+00:00

Are you in the dorms? Give more details

MrAnderzon · 2019-09-04T19:41:24+00:00

College is no different from high school. Be active in some sport and invite people. Don't wait to get invited. And keep approaching

YesVeryKewl · 2019-09-04T23:00:31+00:00

no matter what, DO NOT let your social life fuck up your grades. YOU WILL regret it. I know what you're thinking... ohh I'm in university this is the time of my life it's time to durr-durr EXPERIENCE and have fun!!!!

No matter how much fun you think you're going to have now, it will not equal the amount of fun you'll have when you graduate with top grades and earn 10x more than the average person your age. Take it from someone who had fun in college and still killed it to experience the after college fun.

Now I'm not saying you shouldn't have fun. You should. Join sports clubs, go to every class, join "nerdy" activities like professional clubs, public speaking clubs, do stuff with your study partners besides studying (e.g. go out for food), etc. (in college, nerdy = cool). Get a part-time job, volunteer, etc. It's not enough to put yourself in social settings, you must take it upon yourself to make plans with other people, groups, and start events (parties, trips, etc.). Have the attitude of I'm here to ace my courses and have a blast and if you wanna join me then you're welcome. Don't wait for the party.

agjrpsl · 2019-09-04T21:16:06+00:00

Dude you got so many activities going on at your uni. Check the website see what's happening each night on campus. Football season is coming up. Parties, live music events. Make small talk with people and such. Ask a chic out to an activity that's going on. All she can say is no, and then you move on to the next one. Learn this now, and don't wait till you're a senior like someone else posted. Learn about your area it will make things much easier.

ugluk1 · 2019-09-04T21:38:05+00:00

Gain competence, look out for possible jobs.

menial_optimist · 2019-09-04T23:53:05+00:00

study or you wont pass. don't be the retards who drink heavily 3 days a week.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-09-05T01:33:34+00:00

You need a friendo wallet in order to begin collecting friendos. then you walk up to a person you want to friendo and you have to tell them the three main points about why you would make a good friendo, and the three things you want most out of your relationship with your friendo. If you move on from this stage you'll have to compare each others schedules to ensure enough availability for friendo time. Every hour you log with a friendo is worth .0000147 friendo, having multiple friendos with you will compound your friendo earnings by hour per person. Its all very straight forward. If you have any questions feel free to send me or any of the other management staff an email.

Ok for real you need to understand that you dont make people your friends. you typically will meet people for proximity and utility based reasons. either they are in the vicinity regularly, or you need something done and interact with them through that. If during the course of one of these interactions, like "hey neighbour can you help me move my couch into the hall?" your neighbour cracks a joke "hey I heard that friendo thing is starting to get really big" and you reply with some witty retort that moistens his companionship pussy, after the couch moving you might chillax for a moment, some people crack a beer or go out to the alleyway to mutually complain about how fucking bad it smells out there.

After that interaction you're like "hmm, maybe next time I do something and want some company I think about couch moving buddy" or "he moved that couch good, might be a good dude to play tennis with next weekend?"

only maybe you dont play tennis, maybe you're into bum fights and you just want a buddy to bet against. Tailor the situation to suit your needs

Drawman12 · 2019-09-04T21:53:05+00:00

You do whatever you can bro. All of theese advices are empty and worthless, at the end of the day you will be doing 'only' whatever you can.

So instead of asking for advice, do whatever you can and internalise that, only person who can help you the most is yourself.

ArbitraryArlom · 2019-09-05T02:10:16+00:00

Read my mind lol I’m in the same boat. I find it hard to invite a group of people to go out or do anything at night cause I don’t have liquor or weed as well.

Greek-God-Brody · 2019-09-05T10:16:34+00:00

Say Yes to most social events.

carbonhexoxide · 2019-09-04T23:35:29+00:00

Fraternity

Krebota · 2019-09-05T10:01:16+00:00

University is the easiest place to meet people like ever. I'm in Eindhoven, loads of study associations, sporting associations and student associations, and if that's not enough the nightlife is huge. The question is what do you not do and how do you limit the things you invest yourself in because there's just so much.

latinasonly · 2019-09-05T15:48:56+00:00

talk and be friendly to everyone. also be tough if people try to bother you (this gains peoples respect) those people who enjoy your company the most and you like the most will become your freinds. you will become popular because a lot of people know and like you .

also don't be a dick to others to seem cool. you are loosing a lot of your potential "fans" that way. make sure to workout at the college gym . do join a frat if you have the time/money/interest.

be an expert in the college classes you are enrolled in . invite others to study with you and they will gladly show up .

PM me if u have questions

LeEbinConchShell · 2019-09-04T22:55:37+00:00

just join a frat dude. im serious

readingblastoise · 2019-09-04T20:42:26+00:00

make an instagram / snap

meet people and follow them on insta / snap

display your personality and lifestyle on insta / snap

interact / invite people to hang on insta / snap

Title	What do I do in university?
Author	tai_kuen
Upvotes	109
Comments	62
Date	September 4, 2019 7:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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