What the hell keeps you guys going?

mumen_jogger · 2020-07-27T07:07:22+00:00

It's not only because of hypergamy that she can never love you the way you want. But also once she has children, they will always come first.

The answer to all depression related problems on here is make GREAT friends. And to make great friends, you must find them and put in a lot of work.

Great friends don't just have your back but they inspire you to do more, to compete. And to compete means to acknowledge the others potential as an adversary. And having someone recognise your potential is a form of respect, and that's all we really yearn for at the end of the day.

Good luck.

vandaalen · 2020-07-27T07:24:26+00:00

Your problem is neediness. You are still looking for another person to fill a hole inside you. Doesn't work.

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rabmcm32 · 2020-07-27T10:34:32+00:00

Women do have emotions and can love you. The mistake is just assuming permanence with it. Nothing is permanent. You need to just be aware and do what you can to maintain things. But you’re not even there yet, It sounds like you’re on a downer, get another focus or foci, get a different perspective, find something that motivates you, meet some new people.

agoodcrayon · 2020-07-27T07:13:14+00:00

I’m probably gonna get downvoted for this but idc. It’s helped me navigate through life. To each their own.

My mission keeps me motivated.

You probably don’t have a larger goal that you perceive as impossible even tho it is possible.

Girls aren’t your purpose, they never were. They’re just a passenger or a helper to assist you on your purpose.

Hear me out.

For me, as a Christian, I believe what/how the Bible defines humanity. It’s very red pilled. Full of wisdom, guidance, and explains a lot of our nature.

In Genesis, God created Adam first. He commanded Adam to work in the Garden of Eden. Work means to cultivate. Only after Adam worked the fields and named the animals was when God provided him Eve.

This means, get to work bro. Whatever that idea/dream you’ve had for the past 10 years that just won’t go away could very be your purpose in life. It seems impossible because it’s so massive.

Get to it and embrace the suck.

SexySPACsMan · 2020-07-27T15:06:40+00:00

The time is going to pass anyway, and not working hard guarantees misery. I might as well try a little bit and see what I can accomplish.

Worst case scenario, I end up in the same place I would have if I didn't try, but then at least I wouldn't have to live with the "what ifs".

As for the relationship thing, I'm on the same page.

I do believe good relationships are possible, you just have to accept a lot of failed ones along the way. I just see them as a part of the process.

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2020-07-27T15:36:06+00:00

pure 100% columbian hatred

Richesbeforebitches · 2020-07-27T09:10:19+00:00

I'm in the same place...

YtBlue · 2020-07-27T09:31:57+00:00

You don't love yourself and never took the time to. People shouldn't have to tell you to improve or give you motivation because IF you loved yourself, you would go to the gym, eat healthy, and put yourself above others(especially when they don't deserve). Your burnt out because you're looking for something you can't find in others. Motivation doesn't play a part for me, I just do.

absolutelynp · 2020-07-27T13:47:56+00:00

I see it very simliar. Money I dont care about, meningless sex also not very much.

See it this way - the more you learn how to handle women and the situations with women, the closer you get to getting an LTR. Its a path you need to walk. As everything today isn't straight forward anymore, relationships aren't either. So you need to learn and walk the path.

Thats what keeps me motivated. Since I also just started out, Im not drowining in pussy, get flaked on and have bad days. Also hard to do certain things. Clean, good cold approaches for examples or I go on dates or see people when Im not in a mood and fail. You have to keep in midn where you did better and where you grew. Also the path isn't as long as you might think or as I thought in the bginning. Once you have a little grasp of frame and shit tests and a little practice, things look way, way better already.

Also the mission keeps me going. Whenever I failed or have bad days, I remind myself that Im still walking towards something good and worthy and some day it will bring me light.

Are you stuck at getting plates? As someone here put it: "There is no being stuck, there is only thnings you don't know yet". I think thats a very good perspective. Look for the missing peace of knowledge in your puzzle and make the next step towards gaming more.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-07-27T14:20:50+00:00

Ever stay up late and watch a movie that was just awful.. but you have like 30 minutes left to go?

Might as well see it through.

Just curious. Not really attached anymore. Just view Earth like great big fucking clown planet.

mumen_jogger · 2020-07-27T15:03:16+00:00

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robot3000_01 · 2020-07-27T21:43:15+00:00

Just fuck hoes and fuck women on the side if your girl can't prioritise you above the kids

Title	What the hell keeps you guys going?
Author	mumen_jogger
Upvotes	35
Comments	42
Date	July 27, 2020 7:00 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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