Why are you here?

NewBoomAction · 2018-03-19T18:30:27+00:00

I found TRP when my gut was telling me something was up with "my girl."

Overtime, I came to learn it was only my turn. She wasn't mine. I'm ok with this. I enjoy being selfish and saving my time for whatever the fk I want to do.

My mission is to be in the top 20% of men.

trancedj · 2018-03-19T19:46:44+00:00

Served almost 20 years hard labor in a marriage. I found TRP through searching for relationship advice. This place along with a few other subs allowed me to divorce and keep half my shit plus joint custody of the kids and no child support or alimony. I’m lucky as fuck in that regard.

Unfortunately I found this place too late to save my marriage. But looking back on it, I no longer lay any blame on my ex-wife for how things turned out. I’ve come full circle and realize that the failure of my marriage was entirely my fault. I was naive and living a beta lie. I was a complete failure of a man and husband.

Today I’m fully red pilled and enjoy my time with women, work, and life in general. You wouldn’t recognize my life today and it’s taken me years to get my shit together. In that time I’ve learned about the true nature of women and relationships. I’ve grown so much from being a part of this community that I can’t help but come back and try and help other men who might be struggling.

BecomingChad · 2018-03-19T18:39:28+00:00

Got fucked over by my oneitis showing me fake love to get money and status out of me, figured out what went wrong (fucking everything) and moved on from it all using it as motivation to never put someone before me ever again. These days whenever I talk to BP dudes I find it amusing to talk about girls with them. It reminds me of how much progress I've done and how ahead of the curve trp took me.

AWLT_3487 · 2018-03-19T19:13:37+00:00

Was with my girl for 3 years. While I don't think she ever cheated on my, I realized that she was with me just for the status, job, etc... Also she only had two orgasms during PIV sex THE ENTIRE THREE YEARS. She just wasn't that sexually attracted to me. Oh but she could get off on her vibrator no problem. Yes she got wet during sex, but she claim the lack of orgasm was the psycho meds she was taking (red flag for me? God I was such an idiot)

She could have been cheating, but who the fuck knows. I was being used by her so she could hook into my network of friends, family, and loved that I make a lot of $. She always pushed for marriage...G wonder why!?!?!

priapula · 2018-03-19T19:23:32+00:00

I got into PUA and RSD after a breakup with my ex. When i was browsing seddit, some guy posted something about looks. I thought it was bullshit because game > looks right? I decided to look through this guys post history, and, even though he was like-whoring by posting on seddit and TRP, he led me to TRP. Lots of the theory made complete sense at first glance.

cenie · 2018-03-19T19:42:51+00:00

I stumbled across TRP a few months ago and didn't take it seriously at first. Revisited it at my lowest low and realized I was Beta Billy waiting for that Disney movie ending with my unicorn Disney princess. TRP also helped me move on from my oneitis.

My mission is now to get my life back on track and go down the path that I want to take.

redpillthrowaway1214 · 2018-03-19T18:21:27+00:00

Somehow stumbled upon it after making out with a girl I orbited for a year and promptly getting the LJBF after.

TomKorsten · 2018-03-19T20:54:35+00:00

had major oneitis for a girl that didnt even know me. Got referred to RP by a friend, read material, everything makes sense

CrikeyKay · 2018-03-19T22:54:32+00:00

It was referenced on another site, I came here and created an account solely for TRP. I have to say, I've learned a fuck ton in a short while and I can't wait to begin applying these new knowledge in my daily activities.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2018-03-20T00:00:49+00:00

Read The Game when it came out. I heard about it through newgrounds. They made a flashgame similar to leisure suit larry that give some tidbits from the book and was pretty fun. If anyone knows what I'm talking about let me now, that'd be hilarious.

I read it and it helped me with my game quite a bit. Got a really hot girlfriend. Got hella lazy turned really blue, lost her. Get back in shape, meet another hot girl, fall real quick for her. She had issues, we broke up real quick. This was the beginning of the turning point. I was really understanding about her past and it seemed to push her away. Couldn't understand. But I kept bluing along.

Meet another chick through a dating site. Also hot. Like me some raven hair. Also kinda fucked up, "dark" past and shit. Waste 3 months on her never even fuck her. She starts treating me like I'm some asexual or something. This was when I found rollo, then heartiste and then a bunch of others.

The final straw was when I met another chick online. Not so hot. I remember when I met her in person for the first time I seriously almost told her to get out and that I was going home. She wasn't abysmally ugly but she was beneath me looks wise. In the end she really thought she was better than me. You could tell in her attitude. Because I was nice to her and I thought you had to give to get. All I wanted was to fuck her but I treated her like they tell you to. When a girl you know is beneath you acts like she's better than you it's time to start asking questions. And that was it, been red ever since.

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-03-19T18:30:10+00:00

[Long Post]

Parents divorced. Grew up with mom. She tried her best however I became the most blue pill billy beta ever.

Couldn’t look girls in the eyes. Treated every girl like a princess.

Had bad oneitis in school. Wrote her letters yadayada the full cringe package. Got stood up.

Had my first lay at 16 due to good genes however it was on vacation.

First ltr with 18, I literally took the first girl that was attractive enough and committed to her. I did everything for her. After 4 months she told she has borderline, some months later she also told me that she has anorexia. It was ok for me, she ‚loved‘ me and I loved her. I tried to fix her. Big mistake.

Imagine that was my first ltr and I thought it’s my job to keep her happy, drive to her when she feels bad/hurts herself with razor blades/picked her up from the club at 4am...

Spent a lot of money on her because ay the gentleman pays everything right?

I isolated myself from my friends and family. Ignored gym. Finally she said she doesn’t feel me anymore, and we should become friends but she would love to stay in touch.

I was shocked, some days ago she told me she loves me and wants to marry me and have kids. I drove her several times to the hospital, lied for her, invested so much in her, time, energy, love and after 1 year she tells me it doesn’t feel right anymore. I was ready to love someone unconditionally. I took her virginity. But in the end it didn’t feel right for her anymore. I thought I did something wrong/didn’t treat her good enough.

A few days later she told me she kissed another guy, it hurt and I felt like shit. Luckily I had my best friend M that introduced me to trp when I was 19. He took care of me, picked me up for gym...

After 2 months I blocked her everywhere, moved to a new city and started studying.

She tried to reach out for me, chatted with her on Snapchat but then went radio silence. I tried trp and had success. I became a fuckboy and felt like a god, had 4 plates simultaneously and fucked 2 different girls at the same day. I treated girls like shit, they were nothing more but a toy for me. The less I gave a fuck about them and their feelings the more they became attached to me as well as the less I cared about girls the more girls I got.

I learned my lesson and am thankful for this place. If I wouldn’t have discovered trp I might be trapped again in an ltr.

Yes i relapsed and had some beta moments however it’s a long process to become a real redpill men and the best version of yourself.

[deleted] · 2018-03-19T19:09:44+00:00

I've heard about the TRP from RSD, but sort of dismissed it. One day decided to check it out and give it a chance and so I stayed for the discussion. I've always believed in communities like TRP that's all about self improvement, and that's totally open and without really any sort of hierarchy. It's the kind of thing that Western men need, no matter how dark or truthful it might be.

PoeticalArt · 2018-03-19T18:20:23+00:00

I'll probably have to fix and expand on this tonight when I get home, but I'll start.

I found TRP at 19 when my girlfriend and best friend of 10 years decided to fuck a raggedy ass human being in our apartment, on my couch that I paid for.

Since then, I've gone through phases of introspection, self-improvement, relapse, repeat ad infinitum. I'll be honest, I've taken a lot from the community but I'm not in the top 10% of men. I'm overweight, I don't take care of myself like I should, and I dont get pussy every week. BUT mentally I'm much happier and healthier because TRP at least pointed me in the right direction.

To be honest, I think that TRP has become pretty toxic, and I started distancing myself from it. Don't get me wrong, THE CORE ideas that TRP preaches aren't inherently bad. Take care of yourself, pursue yourself, pursue life, and the world will be your oyster. The reason I still occasion comment is because I see men/boys that come in, looking for a light at the end of the tunnel, and I think that people need to see a different side of TRP that isn't about women.

oldslut · 2018-03-20T01:00:26+00:00

why are you here? your karma history shows that you've done nothing for this community, yet you want our stories. what are you, a journalist for buzzfeed? thanks, but no thanks.

Ricklogical · 2018-03-20T14:53:00+00:00

I have been a serial monogamous relationship dude most of my life. Also raised by my mother in a very small place. Saw my father a few days every few months, but he hardly stopped jerking off or playing video games long enough to teach me his talents.

He trained me to serve him sandwiches and coffee and leave him alone. His wife raised me to clean up myself and my environment.

I am uncomfortably organized for most people. With women, my father had explained some blunt object points, but not the finer details that are required for true success.

I was and still mostly am, an extreme writer. I was raised socially on AIM chatrooms and message boards. Most real world relationships were hard and cold and selfish on my part, pressing the women I dated to a standard they could not live up to. I would bore of them and leave them.

Over time I began to feel there was something wrong with me, I became much more caring of the feelings of women, I wrote long letters proclaiming my love of them in many fantastic overblown ways.

My body and face did a lot to prevent what most of us here have experienced. My family is one of the wealthiest in my area. I still pulled very few chicks, and again only one at a time.

TRP really took hold after my marriage. This woman was an effective worker, kept a clean house, and submitted to me in every way. I felt safe enough to change careers out of the family business, which turned me into a much more arrogant, callous prick of a man.

I started drinking more, playing more games, and losing touch with her. I did nothing but work and waste my life away. I gained plenty of weight, changed my dress [excellent] and grooming and talked shit about anyone who was messy.

She just happened to be a very spiritual hippy type woman. I was digging into a corporate mindset, Mr. GQ thing. She met a younger man than herself at her second job. A Jamba Juice. This dude was super easy for her to dominate, and I had been teaching her to be more dominant for years. I was no longer the master, but her equal, which made her uncomfortable with our dynamic.

She now runs this dude, with advice from me, but for a few years, there was a chaotic shift, from her doing what she needed for me, to being a distant live in friend [starfish sexxxxx] to moving out to 'find herself' at which time I was already reading TRP and asked flat out if she was just going to ride this dude.

She denied it and I believed her for a long time. I had not found a better woman than this currently, but I had been hermetic, and busy with doing anti social shit my entire life.

This caused the largest issues. I broke away from her and have mostly stayed the same, very small strong tight circle, very little new people flow into my life.

I am with a woman from my past, from when I was 17. She has children and again, she treats me like a god. She earns good money and lets me control every aspect of our lives.

I am still highly anti social in real life, but have managed to aquire all over TRP gains on the sidebar.

I have a great diet, fitness routine, doubled my salary last year, and had multiple plates running for a good 6 months.

I am not seeking the perfect Redpill experience, but it's guidelines did some incredible work for me. I am here to share my intuitive wisdom of those things I have gone through that I see others going through. I do this in two ways, by giving the advice that I would follow, or giving the advice of the Redpill core when it would be shit to give my own advice.

This happens often enough, I'm off the redpill in many areas but I know and respect the path it puts a man on.

I think women are much more capable of good behavior than the pill, I think there is a great space in many women to respect a man sharing feelings, but the timing of such things is still critically essential.

I think women every age as you age as a man, will be more attractive.

I think in many cases men are overly rude, immature and idiotic in relationships and the arrogance and hatred insulate them from becoming the type of human I would like to see this planet populated with.

More than men or women, PEOPLE are stupid, selfish and sneaky. I love redpill dogma surrounding NOT mate guarding. I have always been very open, raised to be this way, about my partners and friends all fucking whoever they like.

The few cheating women I caught I congratulated and evicted from my sexual life because they were too cowardly to trust me with the information. The men they cheated with were not hated, but loved. Any chance I have had, I went to find out the details, share my own stories and share laughs about the joys of banging these women.

Life is too short to be so caught up emotionally in things you cannot control.

You fall in love, you enjoy it, when it ends, you let it go knowing there are plenty more adventures for you. As that happens, you focus on your body, your career, your passions and be as solid a man as you can for your family and community.

Easier said than done, but this place is pretty awesome, and the rules are all blatant at this time in history. The information you need is at your fingertips. There is no greater joy than opening a door so that someone can walk through and become greater than they were.

Title	Why are you here?
Author	Sexyladstik
Upvotes	2
Comments	25
Date	March 19, 2018 5:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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