It's not really any mystery that a high body count creates neuroticism in women (aka "The Thousand Cock Stare"). This usually results in an inability to pair bond and connect with a partner. My question is why does a high body count have such an adverse effect on women but seemingly does not effect men at all.

I'm 26 now and sit around 30 notches. In the past year alone I accumulated a third of that sleeping with 10 girls. Early last year I decided to make a fundamental change in myself and become someone who was good with women. That's a story for another post though.

What I found at the end of a year filled with 20 dates and 10 new lays is that I'm still the same person I was before. In fact I might even be a better person. I feel as if I can love just as deeply now as I could with my first girlfriend when I had around 5 notches. I feel calmer and no longer have a fear of missing out in life. I feel as if I'm better able now to handle an LTR or even marriage and have gained knowledge with which I can share with my male friends.