Why does my girlfriend keep saying she doesn't like abs?

ttann71 · 2019-03-27T14:07:46+00:00

She wants you to be fat so there isn’t any competition. Like a pig to the slaughter.

civilizedfrog · 2019-03-27T14:56:10+00:00

She is genuinely concerned for other women. She don't want other women to get dehydrated from drooling over your abs.

bluefingerblue · 2019-03-27T14:41:58+00:00

Competition anxiety. Don’t listen.

cufflad · 2019-03-27T14:15:11+00:00

Tell her she better get cooking for you then.

RPAlternate42 · 2019-03-27T14:47:59+00:00

Crabs and buckets.

If you get hot, she has to work harder.

She also, like women do, assumes you do the things you do for her. If she doesn't like and (or days so) then you should stop getting them.

Ignore her and continue.

SeasonedRP · 2019-03-27T14:49:18+00:00

She's comfortable with you and doesn't want you to appeal to other women. Married women get like this when they are secure that their husbands won't leave them. Sounds like some mild dread game is in order.

showerdudes9 · 2019-03-27T16:01:26+00:00

"That's ok, the abs are for me, not for you"

topkar · 2019-03-27T15:52:23+00:00

I went through my winter bulk and subsequently lost my abs. Now its time to eat clean for summer and she finally admitted she didn't want me to cut any fat because she doesn't want me to get a hotter girl. lol. Same shit with you.

boy_named_su · 2019-03-27T15:17:53+00:00

The chads that pumped n dumped her in the past had abs

If you get in shape, and she doesn't, then that creates tension for her

She doesn't want to lose you to another woman

RPLawyer · 2019-03-27T16:56:22+00:00

Is she fucking you?

Watch her actions not her words.

hmsthinkingmeat · 2019-03-27T15:06:39+00:00

Her: I don't like abs.

You: Oh? We'd better break up then. See you.

Her: meltdown.

alpha-zach · 2019-03-27T15:34:40+00:00

Ever remember blue pill you tell your girlfriend that xyz girl wasn’t that hot cause her chest was too big? I do.

There’s some truth to this. For me, there’s def a point where it’s too big and often that comes along with flab in other areas. I like a small waisted girl and chest isn’t nearly as important. Of course I don’t like flat and bigger is great as long the figure is good.

But we all have our preferences and some of those are colored by past experiences. It’s not unlikely she has a mental aversion to a cut body because of the way she was treated by attractive guys. It’s also highly likely a solid cut body will change some of your confidence and mental dominance which she will have to get used to but she’s concerned about the dread she’ll experience. Also from her hypergamous lens she believes you think the same and may “branch swing” if she doesn’t keep up.

So she’s not exactly lying, but it’s not relevant. You do what you want within your frame. If she likes it or doesn’t shouldn’t matter. You do you, and she can stay on the ride or opt to get off.

Nighthawkdragon8 · 2019-03-27T20:22:36+00:00

Depends how long you have been dating. Sounds like a poison drip to me though.

RedKnightTime · 2019-03-27T21:32:53+00:00

Because she's full of shit.

Title	Why does my girlfriend keep saying she doesn't like abs?
Author	Ravenscar7
Upvotes	6
Comments	40
Date	March 27, 2019 2:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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