Why quit porn?

fnordsnord · 2015-11-12T00:19:28+00:00

Because Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction is a real thing. Very little research has been done on but if you google it you will find a number of sites PACKED with scary anecdotes.

I won't go into the bro-science a lot of guys spout. There's no research behind most of it. But let me lay some facts on you.

Do the same thing over and over again, and you train your reflexes. It's how we learn to fight, is it not?

Your hand is tighter than any vag ever made. Your forearm can move faster than any ass can shake, however young and nubile.

And, finally, how likely are you going to be able to appreciate the shy little HB6 underneath you when you've been jerking it all week to HB9's doing the nastiest things you can imagine?

I think it's possible to train yourself to prefer your own hand over pussy - and that's PIED.

alpha_n3rd · 2015-11-11T20:11:05+00:00

11 days in and you're already crumbling? Man up, broseph. It's not about whether or not porn is bad. It's about you making the choice to abstain for 30 days. How fucking hard is it to not porn for 30 days? You made a decision, now follow through.

*If you really need some reasons http://yourbrainonporn.com/

bertmaklinFBI · 2015-11-11T20:47:39+00:00

The only reason you are looking at or have the urge to look at porn is because you have too much free time.

ChallengeMan95 · 2015-11-11T20:36:57+00:00

Everytime you look at porn: -You get excited watching someone else getting excited. -You are wasting your time -You are making love to a man -You are alone -You make yourself more desensitized -You are wasting your energy -You are contributing to make a business that shatters completely the reality of living grow.

Rayjaysdick · 2015-11-11T20:55:22+00:00

For me, I was masturbating to chubby asian girls for years, was fine cause I was dating one. Now life throws a Latina at me and my dick is like "wtf is this".

I let my sexuality get too specific and it desensitized me from real women.

Magensium · 2015-11-12T03:35:50+00:00

Your question has already been answered but I'd like to give you a few tips on how to avoid masturbating and watching porn.

I haven't masturbated or watched porn in 388 days and counting. Here is what you need to know:

1) It gets easier 2) Feeling horny? Take a cold shower or go somewhere public. (Second one won't do you any good if you're a sick fuck who's willing to do it in the bathroom stalls of Starbucks) 3) Go lift and make yourself too tired to masturbate.

stickfiguresk · 2015-11-12T07:16:43+00:00

I fantastically disagree with the majority of people here when it comes to masturbation (lol, this may mean I need more hobbies). Our constant obsession with our dicks is from our relationship with testosterone--even babies are frequently caught fondling their bits on ultrasounds. I think beating the meat gets a bad wrap. Bad eyesight? Masturbation. Hairy palms? Masturbation. E.D.? Masturbation. Anti-social behavior? Masturbation.

Spanking the monkey is totally natural. We've adapted to work this way. Porn, on the other hand, is brand spanking(I sware some of these puns came about naturally) new. The good shits only been around for 50 years, and the easy access has only been around for 20-ish years. We have not adapted to such a plethora of visual stimulation, and probably never will.

My point is that masturbation and sex need to be kept seperate. Porn bridges that gap, and fucks you all up in the head, and robs you of what masturbation is supposed to be like.

To the guys that associate fapping with E.D./desensitization, there are other factors at work that should be considered before you blame your skull-crushing grip: insecurity(environmental, circumstancial, and self-consciousness), lack of attraction(to your partner), condoms, and her just being too loose. When a few of these things happen at the same time, your body is going to react. I put insecurity first because it seems to be the most common cause.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-11-11T23:56:45+00:00

I have gone without porn for a bit and had sex last night after sort of a dry spell. It was much better because it was the thrill of sex and the thrill of porn all in one. I mean imagine you haven't seen a woman fucking for a couple weeks, at all, and the first time is with a real one. Much better.

I've actually been much happier and productive but who knows if porn has anything to do with it. I used to watch it once per day.

GraphicSeniorNudity · 2015-11-12T00:27:19+00:00

Doesn't the fact that it's difficult to go without it by itself make you want to quit?

If I have a habit that I can't put down, I am not in control of my own behavior. I like to play video games, but I can live without them. I like porn, but I try to go without it and really struggle. That alone independent of any other input or output tells me I need to get control of this habit.

I don't even need it. It's just something to enjoy.

And in my own personal experience, when I'm cut off from it my natural libido and appreciation for real women goes way up.

DreadLockedHaitian · 2015-11-13T16:04:32+00:00

As someone who has done NoFap, I'm still confused. To do or not to do? I don't mind because I thought it was kind of ok but at this point, I guess I should refrain. I'm getting into Mature porn again.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-11-11T23:57:34+00:00

Porn is nothing more than highly addictive, anti-sex propaganda. It's very nature is to get users addicted so they can implant the wrong messages about sex. So, when a porn addicted man goes to have sex with a woman (with a sound mind) he tried all this aggressive acrobatics and only concentrating on his own pleasure (porn is baised around male pleasure). While, on the other hand, the woman expect natural sex and gets turned off by the guys behavior, which leads to all the 18yo posting on here with limp dicks.

What gets me, is if you follow the laws of sex women will do anything for you, due to sexual plasticity. If you follow laws of sex, ensure you won't use the act to embarrass her, and not treat her like a sluts for doing it, they will do literally anything.

Title	Why quit porn?
Author	refusewool
Upvotes	12
Comments	32
Date	November 11, 2015 7:41 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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